New relationships and long-distance dynamics complicate the decision to have children, especially when ambivalence exists. The individual's desire to consider motherhood at 50 raises ethical concerns. Age is not the only factor in having a child; relationship stability and mutual agreement are crucial. The suggestion to stop birth control without discussing it with a partner indicates a lack of communication. Moving forward with such a significant decision should include open dialogue about expectations and the future.
There are circumstances under which people should have a child, and then there are yours: new relationship, long distance, ambivalence about becoming a mother.
We don't need to factor in your age to see that just 'going off birth control and seeing what happens' is not a good idea.
Would you want that to happen before you and your partner have even had the chance to live in the same area, let alone the same home?
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