The article discusses the shortcomings of traditional parenting approaches that discourage questioning authority and foster submissiveness. The author, reflecting on their own upbringing, strives to be a different kind of mother by promoting values of independent thinking and questioning. Faced with pushback from both their children and society, they share a personal experience where they chose to engage in a meaningful conversation with their son, which exemplifies their commitment to nurturing critical thinking rather than blind obedience. Ultimately, the article emphasizes the importance of parenting that empowers children to challenge injustices and think for themselves.
After a lot of questions, he just scrunched up his face and said, "That's stupid." I opened my mouth to correct him - because, you know, respect. But then I stopped.
If I wanted my children to rise above the herd, think for themselves, question the world around them, and stand up for what's right, that revolution had to begin at home.
Our society values submissiveness. The better you can fall into line, the easier your life will be. Don't question too much, ignore injustice, and obey authority without hesitation.
Well, I call bullsh*t. When I had kids, I promised myself that I would be a different kind of mother.
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