"But her first day on campus, she figured out the bus system and began exploring her new city. She joined clubs and communities and eventually found her people. And when classes got tough, she reached out for help and took breaks, spending time doing things she loves. Watching her newfound independence and growing confidence made me realize I had done a good job as her mother to prepare her for life on her own."
"The first year of empty nesting felt like what I imagine most couples experience in the first year of marriage. My husband and I had time to really talk, more about our lives and less about our child. We went out to dinner on random Wednesday nights. We saw movies in the middle of Saturday afternoons. We made most of these decisions on the spur of the moment, and it was glorious."
Before college, friends warned about empty nesting, but the transition proved easier for me. My daughter quickly learned the bus system, explored her city, joined clubs, and found her community. She sought help when classes were hard and balanced work with activities she loves. Watching her independence and confidence convinced me that I had prepared her well for living on her own. I gained time for personal activities and spontaneous choices. My husband and I regained opportunities for conversation and unplanned outings that rejuvenated our relationship. A brief sadness surfaced when realizing the empty-nest period was already half over.
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