In Slate's parenting advice column, a mother who planned to raise only one child grapples with the disapproval of her family regarding her choice. Despite her previous commitment to a one-child family due to health complications, an unexpected pregnancy led to loss and anxiety about societal pressures. The advice reinforces that families come in various structures, and only children do not lead lonely lives. It explores overcoming external judgment and reiterates the importance of trusting oneself in parenting decisions.
Banishing other people's voices from our heads isn't easy, especially when they echo our own insecurities. Lack of self-trust amplifies unwelcome judgments from others.
Families can be complete with any number of (or even no) children. Only children are not doomed to a miserable, lonely life; a child does not need siblings.
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