The article discusses the challenges of parenting ideals versus the reality of raising children, specifically through the approach of TikTok creator Julie Wise. She explains a technique used with her daughter, Rose, where she asks for permission for small, inconsequential actions. This not only reassures her daughter but also helps instill a sense of agency and consent. By randomly asking for permission, Wise allows Rose to feel in control, thus teaching the basics of consent while fostering respectful interactions between parents and toddlers.
"The reason she does this is, throughout the day, I will randomly ask her for her permission to do something. For example, before I pick her up, I say, 'Can I pick you up?'"
"The key, Wise says, is to make sure you're picking sort of random things that aren't of any real consequence. Of course you want a hug from your toddler, but if they say no it's not a big deal - you'll get one later."
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