The article discusses the phenomenon of the 'vacation wife', referring to a family member—often a mother—who bears the brunt of vacation planning and responsibilities. It highlights the emotional labor involved in organizing vacations, with one partner often becoming the default planner. Experts suggest the need for equal distribution of planning duties to prevent resentment and ensure that both partners enjoy the vacation. The piece emphasizes communication and recognition of each other's strengths to maintain a healthier family dynamic during vacations.
"Vacation is absolutely a part of emotional labor; it’s like being a project leader, but without the paycheck... a good time for everyone."
"We all have different strengths, and it’s perfectly fine for both partners in a relationship not to have the same ones..."
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