"I had herpes simplex virus encephalitis (HSVE) in my early 20s while studying at university to become a midwife. This is the virus that can cause cold sores. My recovery seemed smooth, despite nearly not surviving it. I had two neuropsychology assessments only-one in the immediate period of recovery while an inpatient, and one about nine months later, when I was signed-off to return to my studies. After initially struggling, I graduated with a 2:1, got employed, and my encephalitis became pretty much forgotten."
"Fast-forward over a decade and I had fertility treatment to get pregnant, on my own. I couldn't quite point to why relationships had been a challenge, but I invested everything into relationships that didn't have the same commitment. Many things were more challenging than I expected in life, but I've always been determined, once I set my mind to it. So, at age 38, I finally had my long-awaited baby. But, something wasn't quite right."
A woman contracted herpes simplex virus encephalitis (HSVE) in her early 20s while training as a midwife. Initial recovery allowed return to studies and employment after two neuropsychological assessments, but long-term consequences were not explored. She pursued motherhood later via fertility treatment, having experienced relationship difficulties and emotional strain. After becoming a mother at 38 she experienced numbness and an emotional disconnect that contrasted with expectations of parenting. The emotional disconnect produced feelings of being an imposter. Ongoing recognition and advocacy for long-term care and support are essential for survivors and their families.
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