"Domestic abusers often push their sons to play high-impact sports while blocking activities such as reading, music, art, or theater. Abusers communicate that masculinity is defined by violent physicality and dominance, not self-betterment."
"Some abusers make their sons run laps until they cry or lift heavier weights than they should. They may knock them down or kick balls too hard at them during practices."
"Children may develop anxiety disorders when pushed into dangerous situations against their will. Some of the boys described their terror and begged to be allowed to quit."
Domestic abusers like Daniel impose harsh masculinity on their sons, discouraging tenderness and promoting aggression. They prioritize contact sports over creative pursuits, equating masculinity with physical dominance. This approach can lead to emotional issues and anxiety in children. Abusers often validate their own masculinity through their sons' athletic achievements, punishing failures and pushing them into dangerous activities. The cycle of aggression and emotional suppression can have lasting effects on both the children and their relationships.
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