Natalie, a New Yorker, has faced criticism for her decision to remain childless, with detractors labeling her as 'selfish.' In a recent TikTok video, she expressed her belief that choosing not to have children allows her to live freely and meaningfully. She emphasizes that fulfillment doesn't solely arise from parenthood and argues that bringing children into the world for selfish reasons is more problematic. As she embraces life on her own terms, she finds joy in experiences like travel rather than adhering to societal expectations of marriage and motherhood.
I hear the question, 'Who's going to take care of you when you're older?' a lot. I don't agree with that. You shouldn't have kids just to ensure someone will take care of you later in life.
I used to believe that getting married and having kids were essential milestones for a meaningful life. However, I've come to realize that this isn't the case.
Fulfillment doesn't depend on meeting society's traditional expectations. My life holds meaning on my own terms.
I believe it's more selfish to have kids for the wrong reasons than choosing not to have them.
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