"There are many things from which parents want to shield their children, things that the children aren't yet equipped to understand. So, a succinct but firm explanation may leave some things unanswered for your kids while still keeping them safe. Try an explanation that keeps the focus on yourself, like I need to see you when you're playing, and I don't have time to go over to the neighbors' house. Or I'm more comfortable with you all playing in the yard."
"While the neighbor's children aren't your responsibility, you are an adult who has eyes on them at times and is aware of some of the dysfunction in the house. There may come a time that you see something that makes you concerned for their welfare. Be proactive about reaching out for help for them, and for their parents. Similarly, if you have the opportunity, check in with one or both of the neighbors individually to see if they need outside support"
Set a simple, firm boundary that keeps children safe by explaining parental preferences in child‑friendly terms, such as needing to see them while they play or being more comfortable with outdoor play. Offer alternatives like inviting neighbor children over instead of visiting their house. Avoid burdening the neighbor children with explanations or blame. Stay observant for signs of domestic violence and be prepared to act if a child's welfare seems at risk. Privately check in with neighbors to offer support or resources, including connections to the National Domestic Violence Hotline when appropriate.
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