The article addresses a couple's decision to forgo a traditional wedding registry, opting instead for a more personal approach by creating photo walls in their home. This decision has led to discontent among their extended family, who feel uncertain about how to give gifts. Miss Manners advises that the couple’s future mother-in-law can share general guidelines about what types of gifts would be appreciated, inadvertently maintaining the celebratory spirit of weddings. The article also touches on the topic of handkerchiefs vs. tissues, advocating for handkerchiefs as reusable and environmentally friendly alternatives at weddings.
Miss Manners suggests that while many are accustomed to providing wedding registries, the couple's desire for personal gifts doesn't negate the fact that relatives want to celebrate in some way.
The advice highlights the importance of providing indirect, general suggestions in response to relatives who wish to give gifts but are unsure of what to offer.
Miss Manners also offers a critique on the norm of weddings, stressing that while traditions are deeply ingrained, adjustments can still maintain a celebratory spirit without a formal registry.
When asked about handkerchiefs, Miss Manners emphasizes their practicality over disposable tissues and notes that handkerchiefs can be seen as a tasteful option even at extravagant events.
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