In a letter to Abby, a retired individual wrestled with guilt for not sharing their second home purchase with former colleagues, fearing it might affect their career raises. Abby advised that maintaining privacy about financial matters is acceptable and not disclosing assets doesn't reflect dishonesty. Another letter conveyed the struggles of a 23-year-old college student facing cultural barriers and anxiety over securing employment and independence. They feared initiating conversations about their situation with their parents due to cultural expectations of support.
"You are entitled to a private life, and it isn't necessary to reveal what financial assets you have to anyone beyond your accountant and your attorney."
"Stop flogging yourself over something that is nobody's beeswax. If you allude to the fact that you and your husband spent the weekend away...who is to know it wasn't purchased after your retirement?"
"As a 23-year-old college student struggling to find direction in life, I feel increasingly anxious as my parents are unable to work much longer."
"This unique cultural expectation makes it harder for me to find opportunities or build connections I need for a successful future."
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