"Imagine serving in the military for two years during the Korean War, working with men in all states of dress and undress. Imagine being so attracted to one of the same gender and realizing that sharing lives was an impossibility because my 'difference' could never be disclosed."
"Imagine falling so deeply into depression as a result that suicide seemed the only solution. Attempted but not taken to completion."
"For Hayes, what helped him finally accept himself was coming out at age 47. While we often imagine the journey to self-acceptance culminating in coming out, some people start their journey with a leap of faith and then work on themselves from there."
"Imagine my pride to have been one of the hundreds who carried the mile-long Pride flag down First Avenue in New York."
Theodore W. Hayes, at 95, shared his journey of self-acceptance after living in fear of being discovered as gay for 47 years. He knew his identity since childhood but faced immense pressure and fear, especially during his military service. His struggle with depression led him to attempt suicide. Ultimately, coming out at 47 marked a turning point, allowing him to find love and happiness. He expressed pride in participating in the mile-long Pride flag event in New York City, symbolizing his acceptance and celebration of his identity.
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