A Reddit user is concerned about her fiancé financially supporting his family, who are struggling despite a history of wealth. He has been persuaded to prioritize his parents' lavish lifestyle over their couple's shared financial goals, and they have even asked him to take out a $100K loan. This situation causes tension in the relationship, as the OP feels their finances are not aligned. Both partners must establish clear boundaries regarding financial commitments to ensure a healthy future before moving forward with marriage.
The original poster is upset that her fiancé is making the choice to spend most of his income on helping his family maintain their mansion and luxury cars.
The OP has some important decisions to make - and she'll need to make sure that she and her fiancé can get on the same page before going through with the wedding.
Her fiancé’s parents are pushing him to give them more money so they don’t have to make any lifestyle changes despite their financial crisis.
Although he has managed to say no to the loan, he seems to be having a difficult time addressing the matter with any sort of finality.
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