Miss Manners: What do I say to someone who won't use my nickname?
Briefly

When addressing someone who insists on using your full name, approach them casually. You might say, 'I think we know each other well enough now that you can call me Gen, not Genevieve. All my friends do, and it’s what I prefer.' This conveys intimacy and familiarity without sounding harsh.
Regarding airport seating issues, it is appropriate to politely ask if you could temporarily use the seat being held for someone else. You could say, 'Would you mind if I took this seat for a bit until your friend shows up? I'm happy to give it up when they arrive.' This maintains politeness while addressing your need to sit.
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