In day-to-day life, there are two kinds of selfishness. One is where you don't give a damn about anyone else and what they need or want, and just go after what you want, whenever it feels good to do so.
But overemphasising the primacy of kindness can make us feel as if we can never put ourselves first, even when we really need to.
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