"Some individuals use threats of suicide or self-harm to manipulate others. This is common with individuals who suffer from symptoms of borderline personality disorder (BPD). People whose children, parents, partners or friends threaten them in this way often report that they feel they must give in to whatever is demanded. When they do give in, they reward the person making threats and encourage them to do it more."
"People who are planning to hurt or kill themselves don't negotiate or manipulate. Sometimes, people feel the urge to hurt themselves and they tell others to give them a chance to stop them. Where this occurs, there is no demand made and therefore it is not a manipulation. If someone comes to you in this way, you should encourage them to seek professional help immediately."
Some individuals use threats of suicide or self-harm to manipulate others. This is common among individuals who suffer symptoms of borderline personality disorder. People whose partners, family members, or friends use such threats often feel compelled to give in. Giving in rewards the person and increases the likelihood of repeated threats. People who are planning to hurt or kill themselves do not negotiate or make demands; they may ask others to help stop them and need immediate professional intervention. Threats used to coerce or bully must be taken seriously, and the most compassionate response is to guide the person toward professional help.
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