The article discusses the scarcity of resources specifically designed for gay male couples, highlighting the unique challenges they face rooted in societal norms and internalized shame. The author, who has worked with gay couples for over four decades, emphasizes that many gay men have not been taught emotional expression beyond anger. The lack of role models and training manuals for relationships compounds these issues, making it essential for couples to engage in deep emotional work for a satisfying partnership.
The lack of available resources for male couples is striking, compelling many to adapt materials designed for heteronormative relationships to meet their specific needs.
Male couplehood lacks a training manual, leaving many gay men to navigate their relationships without role models or examples of successful partnerships.
The internalized shame many gay men experience exacerbates relationship challenges, making it crucial for couples to engage in deep emotional exploration.
Most boys learn to express only anger instead of a full range of emotions, which hinders communication in their adult relationships.
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