"When we first became involved, she even joked that she didn't want me getting mad when it was time for her to visit her friend on girls' trips. A threesome with a bisexual woman has always been my fantasy. She even gave me permission to go online and find a unicorn for us. But when I set up a meeting, she didn't seem to want to follow through with it, so I stopped looking."
"Being bisexual does not necessarily mean one is interested in threesomes. You seem to have assumed it does, but it could be that the last thing your wife wants is to include you during sex with another woman. She implied this early on by saying she did not want you to get upset when she went off on a girls' trip."
A husband married a bisexual wife who initially joked about girls' trips and allowed him to seek a "unicorn" for a threesome. He arranged a meeting once but the wife did not follow through, so he stopped. Later she suggested she might have grown out of that phase and feared that adding another person could ruin the marriage. He worries she might pursue same-sex encounters without him and insists any contact with another woman include him. The guidance is to have a frank, nonjudgmental conversation, listen carefully, and negotiate boundaries and consent together.
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