"Every person's sexual journey fluctuates. Try not to think of your relationship needs or your ability to tolerate different types of sexual unions in a finite way. Your needs as you are experiencing them now may well change in the future; at a certain time you might become less ambivalent and find some clarity and a comfortable path or not. At some point you might meet someone who provides a transformative opportunity for you by"
"reflecting your desires in a holistic fashion and at another point you might decide that casual connections are best for you. Worrying about the future and playing the What if? game is simply anxiety-based and a waste of your energy. Try to be in the moment in your relationships, and see the value of each person with whom you might have a sexual connection. When and if you are ever ready to deepen true intimacy with a single person, you will know"
Sexual preferences and relationship needs often change over time rather than remaining fixed. Casual sex can suit some stages of life while deeper intimacy may become desirable later. Open relationships can be complex and often generate jealousy and emotional strain. Worrying about hypothetical futures tends to fuel anxiety and drain energy. Focusing on the present, valuing each connection, and assessing personal readiness for deeper commitment can provide clarity. When true readiness for sustained monogamous intimacy arises, recognition of that readiness will usually be clear.
Read at www.theguardian.com
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