Edward Reese came out as non-binary at 33, reflecting on their journey of self-discovery that began in childhood but was delayed due to personal circumstances. Living in an abusive relationship hindered their voice and identity. The 2000s lacked adequate workplace protections, contributing to the fear of discrimination. After years of performance and self-editing, Reese publicly came out in 2018, receiving unexpected support from friends. They emphasize that non-binary identities have always existed and people should prioritize their safety and wellbeing when considering coming out.
I came out as genderqueer/non-binary at the age of 33, I'm now 40. My story isn't unique, I've met a number of people who found their truth in their 30s, 40s and beyond.
Even though I'd known since childhood that my gender didn't match what I was assigned, life had other plans for my timeline...I lived in an abusive relationship where I had no say in my life.
In June 2018, I turned 33 and was done pretending. I came out in a Facebook post. I was exhausted from a lifetime of performance: the wrong pronouns in meetings, a name that never felt like mine.
The fear of workplace discrimination is real and valid. You have no obligation to come out to everyone at once. Your safety and financial security matter.
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