Miss Manners: Is it gauche to give visitors a grand tour of my house?
Briefly

The article addresses two etiquette questions: the first about giving house tours to first-time visitors, which Miss Manners suggests is often seen as showing off unless it's a specific occasion. The second question revolves around handling an unexpected number of guests at a gathering, where Miss Manners supports clear communication about invites. In both cases, she emphasizes the importance of considering guests’ comfort and the clarity of invitation expectations. Miss Manners provides guidance on easier and more respectful ways to handle such scenarios.
Unless you live in a historic property, are throwing a housewarming party or are orienting a houseguest, tours smack of showing off.
Few adults are too shy to ask, and should not even have to spell out such a request, as an inquisitive look to the host should be interpreted as such.
My son did not know how to address this. All four of them attended the meal and were treated by my son, even though the original invitation was for two people.
I am incorrect to think that she should have asked if additional uninvited people co
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