"As a mental health skill builder, drawing from my own experiences, I believe it's crucial for couples to engage in open discussions about their core values and beliefs - particularly in the realm of politics and society - before marrying. While differing opinions are natural and can foster constructive dialog, addressing them upfront is essential." "These discussions not only promote mutual understanding and the potential for productive compromises but also serve as a preventative measure against potential arguments and relationship strains that may emerge over time."
"Expectations, shared goals, wants and needs for space, time alone time together, supporting one another, how to mold lives together being independent enough while also not living a life alone. Letting go of the past, including learned behaviors from your family of origin, as well as unhealthy coping patterns." "There are many things, which sound like a lot, however, once they are resolved and agreed upon, you do not have to keep going back to them. As therapists, we know the greatest predictor of marital success, happiness, and fulfillment is simply kindness towards one another. Love the one you're with - no one is perfect - and do not expect your spouse to be either."
"I work in oncology, and relationships are greatly impacted when someone gets a diagnosis of cancer. Cancer, and illness in general, is more common as we age. Find out how they feel about doctors, medicine, hospitals, medical procedures, recuperating from an illness, being a caregiver, death, and dying." "So, you won't be surprised if you get diagnosed with an illness and your loved one does not step up to the plate."
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