"In Orange County, I was the kind of person who would bury my nose in a magazine to avoid chatting with a hairdresser. I rushed through the checkout line and never said, 'How are you doing?' to someone I didn't know. If small talk was ever forced upon me, I gave away as little about myself as possible."
"In Michigan, though, small talk is unavoidable. I quickly learned that there's no getting around friendly cashiers and shop owners. I was begrudgingly polite, but it initially took some effort to hide my impatience."
"We didn't want to be beholden to a big mortgage, though, and in Michigan, we could purchase an affordable home in a town known for having some of the state's top public schools. Even better, we'd be welcomed by my husband's big Italian family, who lived nearby."
A lifelong Orange County resident moved to Michigan after marriage to afford a home in a good school district. Initially resistant to leaving California, the author experienced significant culture shock upon arrival, particularly regarding the prevalence of small talk and community engagement. Accustomed to California's more reserved social interactions, the author found Michigan's friendly, outgoing culture initially uncomfortable. Over 20 years, this relocation proved transformative, challenging the author's assumptions about social connection and personal values. The move, driven by practical financial considerations, ultimately became a catalyst for personal development and a deeper appreciation for community-oriented living.
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