"I regret centering men in my life at the expense of my own dreams. Society wants us to believe that our value is inherently tied to our proximity to men, and I deeply regret buying into that conditioning. I always felt the need to be in a relationship, and I often lost my identity in many of those relationships. I stayed in a miserable marriage for way too long because of fear and optics."
"Sometimes I wonder where I'd be and what life would be like now if I'd prioritized myself sooner. My best advice is: Don't be afraid to be alone. Relationships can be great, but make sure your needs are getting met, and don't be afraid to cut off what doesn't align with your vision for your life. Time goes so fast; before you know it, a year turns into a decade. Make sure you're living every single moment authentically."
Prioritize physical and emotional self-care by investing in personal health, advocating for oneself, and learning practical skills. Avoid centering life around men or relationships at the cost of personal dreams and identity. Embrace being alone as a space for freedom and growth rather than a curse. Set boundaries, discontinue relationships that do not align with personal vision, and do not rely on others for emotional fulfillment. Use time intentionally; cultivate hobbies and avoid excessive social media scrolling. Recognize that time passes quickly and that living authentically preserves personal agency and long-term wellbeing.
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