Nagoski defines orgasms as 'the sudden, involuntary release of sexual tension.' That's it. There is nothing in there about your body, your bits, clenching, not clenching, yelling, moaning, legs shaking, or anything else.
You can orgasm in your sleep, or from riding a pillow, or only from vaginal penetration, or only from clitoral stimulation, or only when you lie upside down on your couch with your Satisfyer Pro 2. Some people come from working out. Others come when their bladders get full.
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