What Happened When We Chose Not to React in Anger - Tiny Buddha
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What Happened When We Chose Not to React in Anger - Tiny Buddha
"Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response."
"My first reaction was anger. We had already been stuck in that traffic jam for over an hour, and now there was a damaged tire to deal with in the middle of it. The inconvenience, the carelessness, the sudden disruption-it all came together in that moment. But something unexpected happened."
"It could easily have turned into an argument, drawing attention and adding to the chaos around us. And it would have only added to that tension. But we let it go. Instead, we focused on the immediate problem. Changing a tire in that kind of traffic was not possible. Cars were packed too closely, and there was no space to do it safely."
"So we made a tough decision. We drove on. For nearly two kilometers, we moved carefully on a damaged tire, the car unsteady, the sound of it reminding us of what had just happened. Eventually, we found a small roadside tire shop and got it replaced."
A crowded highway traffic jam was interrupted by a loud bang when a motorcyclist struck a rear tire and fell onto the road. The family stepped out, shaken, and the first reaction was anger due to the delay and disruption. The motorcyclist apologized and offered to pay for the damage, which could have led to an argument and more chaos. Instead, the family chose to let it go and focus on the immediate problem. Because changing the tire safely was not possible in packed traffic, they drove carefully for nearly two kilometers until reaching a roadside tire shop to get the tire replaced.
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