#verbal-communication

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Psychology
fromPsychology Today
8 hours ago

Talking to Toddlers and Talking to Terrorists

Negotiation techniques for complex situations mirror those used with young children, revealing fundamental insights about human behavior and communication.
#ai
Typography
fromMedium
6 days ago

AI is rewriting the rules. Language is following.

The word 'delve' has surged in usage due to AI's influence on language and communication patterns.
#communication
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
3 days ago

Psychology says people who would always rather call than text aren't demanding more of your time - they're asking for the one thing that separates a real conversation from the performance of one, which is the sound of another person being alive on the other end, and that need is not inconvenient, it is human - Silicon Canals

Phone calls foster deeper connections than text messages, capturing nuances of emotion that typed words cannot convey.
fromSilicon Canals
9 hours ago
Psychology

Psychology says the moment a person stops needing to be right in every conversation is not the moment they become less intelligent - it is the moment they become more interested in the other person than in their own position, and that shift, whenever it arrives and for whatever reason, is the single most reliable predictor of whether the relationships they build from that point forward will be the kind that last - Silicon Canals

Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
4 days ago

Psychology says people who are cold through text but warm in person aren't being inconsistent - they're showing you exactly where their warmth lives, which is in the room, in the eye contact, in the unrepeatable presence of another human being, and the medium that removes all of those things removes most of what they have to give - Silicon Canals

People's communication styles reflect their emotional energy, not their intentions or feelings towards others.
Psychology
fromJezebel
5 days ago

Every Year, Human Beings Speak Fewer Words than They Used To, Study Suggests

A steady decline in spoken conversation has been observed over the past 14 years, with people speaking significantly fewer words each year.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
6 days ago

Psychology says people who command the most respect in a room aren't the loudest or most confident - they're the ones who can disagree without making others feel stupid for having believed something different - Silicon Canals

Respectful disagreement fosters genuine influence and encourages open dialogue.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
3 days ago

Psychology says people who would always rather call than text aren't demanding more of your time - they're asking for the one thing that separates a real conversation from the performance of one, which is the sound of another person being alive on the other end, and that need is not inconvenient, it is human - Silicon Canals

Phone calls foster deeper connections than text messages, capturing nuances of emotion that typed words cannot convey.
Deliverability
fromEntrepreneur
6 days ago

These Are the Hidden Cues That Make or Break a Conversation

Pre-communication is essential for effective conversations, enhancing motivation and preparedness among participants.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
9 hours ago

Psychology says the moment a person stops needing to be right in every conversation is not the moment they become less intelligent - it is the moment they become more interested in the other person than in their own position, and that shift, whenever it arrives and for whatever reason, is the single most reliable predictor of whether the relationships they build from that point forward will be the kind that last - Silicon Canals

Building lasting connections relies on listening deeply and understanding rather than winning arguments.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
4 days ago

Psychology says people who are cold through text but warm in person aren't being inconsistent - they're showing you exactly where their warmth lives, which is in the room, in the eye contact, in the unrepeatable presence of another human being, and the medium that removes all of those things removes most of what they have to give - Silicon Canals

People's communication styles reflect their emotional energy, not their intentions or feelings towards others.
Psychology
fromJezebel
5 days ago

Every Year, Human Beings Speak Fewer Words than They Used To, Study Suggests

A steady decline in spoken conversation has been observed over the past 14 years, with people speaking significantly fewer words each year.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
6 days ago

Psychology says people who command the most respect in a room aren't the loudest or most confident - they're the ones who can disagree without making others feel stupid for having believed something different - Silicon Canals

Respectful disagreement fosters genuine influence and encourages open dialogue.
Mindfulness
fromSilicon Canals
4 days ago

The older I get the more I notice that my body remembers arguments my mind has forgiven. A tone of voice, a specific pause before someone speaks, a door closing at a certain speed. Forgiveness turned out to be a cognitive event that the nervous system never agreed to. - Silicon Canals

Forgiveness involves both conscious decisions and unconscious bodily responses, highlighting the complexity of emotional healing beyond mere intention.
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 week ago

Don't stop at Duolingo, set realistic goals, balance skills: how to start learning a new language

Learning a new language not only makes you look cool, it also allows you to familiarize yourself with another culture, connect with new people and enjoy a wider variety of art and media.
Online learning
Python
fromAntocuni
2 weeks ago

Inside SPy, part 2: Language semantics

SPy aims to enhance Python's performance while integrating static typing, balancing between an interpreter and a compiler.
Philosophy
fromApaonline
2 weeks ago

Distracting Metaphors

Metaphors can illuminate or obscure understanding, but some, like Holocaust comparisons, can provoke discomfort and controversy.
Digital life
fromFast Company
2 weeks ago

Is AI killing the human voice in writing?

Predictive language technologies challenge individual expression by influencing how writers generate and complete their thoughts.
fromwww.scientificamerican.com
2 weeks ago

Can you solve these language puzzles? Test your skills with these problems from North America's biggest linguistics competition

Computational linguistics is a two-way street: You're either using a computer to do things with human language or communicate or translate or teach a foreign language, or you're using computational techniques to learn something about human languages. Her work documenting and preserving endangered languages uses a little bit of both.
Education
Careers
fromgizmodo.com
2 weeks ago

This Translator Will Help You Parse Your Boss's Mind-Numbing LinkedIn Speak

Kagi's AI translation tool decodes corporate jargon and LinkedIn Speak into plain English, making business communication accessible to non-managers.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
4 days ago

The people who say 'I'm fine with whatever you want to do' in every social situation aren't easygoing. They've simply never been in an environment where stating a preference didn't start a negotiation they couldn't afford to lose. - Silicon Canals

People who appear easygoing may actually be practicing conflict avoidance as a survival strategy learned from past experiences.
Roam Research
fromPsychology Today
3 weeks ago

Why Do Americans and Brits Speak Differently?

American r-pronunciation preserves the older British form from the 16th century, while modern British r-dropping developed later after American colonization.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
6 days ago

Psychology says if someone secretly dislikes you they'll almost never say it out loud - but their body will, in the microseconds before they've decided what their face is supposed to be doing, and learning to read those moments is one of the more uncomfortable social skills available to anyone willing to develop it - Silicon Canals

Microexpressions reveal true emotions faster than conscious control, providing insights into feelings that words may conceal.
Mindfulness
fromPsychology Today
2 weeks ago

How Saying "Please" to AI Changes the Way We Think About It

Using polite language with AI creates perceived relationships that reduce objectivity and increase unhealthy reliance on its responses.
#regional-accents
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
6 days ago

Silent Minds: Exploring the Absence of Inner Speech

Inner speech varies among individuals, and not everyone experiences it, indicating diverse cognitive processes.
OMG science
fromMail Online
4 weeks ago

Scientists recreate the lost languages of ancient humans

Scientists reconstructed ancient human species languages by analyzing fossilized skeletal imprints of soft tissues like the larynx, tongue, and brain, revealing that Neanderthals likely spoke languages understandable to early Homo sapiens.
#small-talk
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago

I've spent my whole life being told I'm "too intense" for casual conversation and I've finally realized the problem isn't that I can't do small talk - it's that small talk feels like agreeing to pretend we're not both thinking about something more interesting - Silicon Canals

Small talk serves a social function but can feel unfulfilling for those seeking deeper connections.
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago
Psychology

Small Talk Is the Conversation That Can Create Chemistry

Brief casual conversations increase enjoyment, spark ongoing interaction, and improve workplace and negotiation outcomes.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago

I've spent my whole life being told I'm "too intense" for casual conversation and I've finally realized the problem isn't that I can't do small talk - it's that small talk feels like agreeing to pretend we're not both thinking about something more interesting - Silicon Canals

Small talk serves a social function but can feel unfulfilling for those seeking deeper connections.
Digital life
fromMail Online
4 weeks ago

What's YOUR Online Language? There are 5 internet styles - take test

Five distinct 'Online Languages' categorize how people use the internet, reflecting personality traits and problem-solving approaches similar to love languages.
Psychology
fromFast Company
1 week ago

Stop trying to 'educate' people into changing. Science proves it doesn't work

False assumptions hinder change; simply providing information does not guarantee behavior change.
Science
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

How the Brain Interprets Faces Into Social Messages

Facial expressions emerge from coordinated activity across multiple brain regions operating on different timescales, from rapid motor signals to slower stable representations, creating socially meaningful and well-coordinated gestures.
Artificial intelligence
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

Anti-Intelligence: When Language Operates Without a Mind

AI generates language through a fundamentally different structural architecture than human cognition, not through inferior intelligence but through inverted processes detached from lived experience and stakes.
Education
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

Fluent at Home, Silent at Work: Growing Up Bilingual

Heritage speakers lack formal language instruction in their native language, creating gaps in professional and academic domains that they internalize as personal failure rather than systemic educational gaps.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago

9 cognitive habits people develop when they grew up bilingual that have nothing to do with language and everything to do with how their brain learned to hold two realities at once - Silicon Canals

Bilingualism can delay Alzheimer's onset by five years and reshapes cognitive processes beyond language.
fromBusiness Insider
1 month ago

I'm a communication therapist. This trick has saved me from hundreds of arguments and weird conversations.

In clinical speech therapy, we use strategic pauses throughout a session with a client. This is similar to resting between physical therapy exercises. When we are teaching people how to use their speech sounds or helping them increase their vocabulary, it's helpful to let the mind rest in between sets.
Miscellaneous
fromHarvard Gazette
1 month ago

Audiobooks don't really count as reading? Think again. - Harvard Gazette

The neural networks that process written and oral language are deeply intertwined and largely overlap when reading print books or listening to audiobooks. There isn't much of a difference between the brain network for reading and the brain network for language comprehension. The brain area we call the 'letter box,' which processes print, is not as engaged when you listen, but it has been shown that when some people listen to words, they visualize them, so the letter box gets activated as well.
Education
Philosophy
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

Psychoethics: The Normative Study of Emotional Speech Acts

Self-defeating speech acts in emotional reasoning impair moral judgment and ethical decision-making, but addressing these patterns restores rational moral agency.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago

Research says if a person uses these 9 phrases in a conversation they probably have below-average social skills - Silicon Canals

Improving social skills is possible by recognizing and changing harmful conversational habits.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago

9 things people with genuinely high social intelligence never do in a conversation - and the one that separates them most clearly from people who are merely charming is something so subtle that most people have never consciously noticed it happening - Silicon Canals

High social intelligence involves genuine engagement and listening, avoiding superficial interactions.
Media industry
fromThe Atlantic
1 month ago

The Orality Theory of Everything

Declining literacy and a shift back toward oral, socially mediated communication via social media may be reshaping consciousness and producing wide-ranging social effects.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago

Psychology says the people who command the most respect in any room aren't the ones who talk the most or the loudest - they're the ones who can sit through an entire conversation without once redirecting attention back to themselves - Silicon Canals

Quiet individuals who listen without redirecting conversations command the most respect in social settings.
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

Are There Linguistic Conspiracy Theories?

The term "conspiracy theory" calls to mind a variety of dubious claims and controversies, like rumors about Area 51, claims that the Earth is flat, and the movement known as QAnon. At first blush, these phenomena would seem to have little in common with bogus word origins. But there are a variety of false etymologies that spread virally and refuse to go away, in much the same way that stories about chemtrails, black helicopters, and UFOs refuse to die.
Writing
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago

Social psychologists found that the people others describe as 'intimidating' are almost never aggressive - they're simply present in a way that makes performative people uncomfortable, because authenticity exposes pretense without saying a word - Silicon Canals

Presence and attentiveness are often mislabeled as intimidation; genuinely dangerous people typically display charm and surface warmth rather than quiet composure.
Psychology
fromMail Online
2 weeks ago

People with foreign accents are seen as less competent, study reveals

Foreign accents reduce audience engagement on TED Talks despite equal content quality, creating an 'accent penalty' that affects reach and influence.
Silicon Valley
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago

Psychology says people who still use complete sentences in text messages share 7 cognitive traits that are becoming increasingly rare - Silicon Canals

Maintaining full sentences and proper punctuation in digital messages correlates with stronger impulse control and deeper information processing, reflecting healthier cognitive habits.
Psychology
fromHarvard Business Review
3 weeks ago

Research: How the "Accent Penalty" Determines Who Gets Heard

A speaker's accent significantly influences idea reception in organizations, often overriding merit-based evaluation despite assumptions that good ideas rise objectively.
fromThe Atlantic
1 month ago

Words Without Consequence

For the first time, speech has been decoupled from consequence. We now live alongside AI systems that converse knowledgeably and persuasively-deploying claims about the world, explanations, advice, encouragement, apologies, and promises-while bearing no vulnerability for what they say. Millions of people already rely on chatbots powered by large language models, and have integrated these synthetic interlocutors into their personal and professional lives. An LLM's words shape our beliefs, decisions, and actions, yet no speaker stands behind them.
Philosophy
#dog-cognition
Psychology
fromEntrepreneur
3 weeks ago

Learn How to Read Anyone in Minutes and Boost Your Influence

Influence depends on keen observation of people's behaviors, preferences, and reactions rather than persuasive speech alone.
fromBuzzFeed
2 months ago

I Hate To Break It To You, But There's A Huge Chance You've Been Saying Extremely Common Words And Phrases Wrong Your Entire Life

1. Tongue in cheek 2. Old wives' tales 3. Statute of limitations 4. To be specific 5. Nipped in the bud 6. Get down to brass tacks 7. Deep-seated hatred 8. All intents and purposes 9. Wheelbarrow 10. Champing at the bit 11. Jury-rigged 12. Ulterior motive 13. Bald-faced lie 14. Dog eat dog world 15. Chump change 16. Dime a dozen 17. Duct tape 18. Can't see the forest for the trees 19. Quote unquote 20. Could have 21. Chalk it up 22. Iced tea 23. Take for granted 24. Blessing in disguise 25. Bated breath
Writing
Education
fromSilicon Canals
2 months ago

7 words highly intelligent people use in conversation that average people mispronounce - Silicon Canals

Correct pronunciation of commonly mispronounced words often reflects extensive reading, attention to language, and habitual auditory correction rather than showing off.
Science
fromwww.scientificamerican.com
1 month ago

Speech sounds are a blurhere's how your brain sorts them out

High-gamma brain-wave power drops about 100 milliseconds after word boundaries, marking word endings and tracking native-language fluency.
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

Is It Better to Learn a Second Language as a Child or Adult?

Parents often hear the warning: "If your child doesn't learn a second language early, they'll never be fluent." Adults, meanwhile, are told: "It's just too late for you to learn now." These claims are familiar and tidy, but misleading. Are they actually true? Is it better to learn a second language as a child or as an adult? The short answer is that it depends on what we mean by "better."
OMG science
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
3 weeks ago

The One Factor That Makes or Breaks a Conversation

Conversational flow—created through genuine listening and acknowledging others' views before sharing yours—determines whether people fully engage with you.
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

Don't Get Lost in Translation

Led Zeppelin warned us about the perils of misunderstood communications in relationships. Failing to translate what we are trying to say or do so that someone else gets it is the root of so many problems. But translation is a fantastic find when it goes right. Here are some things I've learned about translating meaning from a lifetime of speaking numerous languages, practicing a wide array of martial arts, and communicating science.
Philosophy
Psychology
fromTheregister
3 weeks ago

Jargon-lovers are worse at their jobs, say boffins

Employees who find corporate jargon impressive tend to have weaker analytical thinking skills and make poorer workplace decisions.
Careers
fromMedium
2 months ago

Where are conversation designers now?

Conversation design lacks a clear career ladder, so designers must proactively map diverse career pathways, gather evidence, and redefine progression beyond traditional titles.
Miscellaneous
fromMail Online
2 months ago

Study reveals why Barrow and Lancaster accents are so dissimilar

Accent rhoticity differs sharply between nearby Barrow-in-Furness and Lancaster due to intense late-19th-century industrial population mixing.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
3 weeks ago

There's a type of person who can hear one sentence from a stranger and know exactly what kind of household they grew up in. They're not psychic. They were just raised in a home where reading people accurately was the difference between a calm evening and a terrible one. - Silicon Canals

Trauma survivors' exceptional ability to read emotions and social cues stems from childhood threat detection training, not innate intuition or empathy, resulting in exhausting hypervigilance.
fromTravel + Leisure
4 weeks ago

This Is the Friendliest Language in the World, According to a New Study-and No, It's Not English

When respondents were asked which languages feel the most welcoming, Portuguese emerged on top, selected by 34 percent of participants. Spanish came in a close second with 33 percent of respondents calling it the friendliest, followed by Italian in third. Together, these languages form a clear cluster associated with warmth and approach.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 months ago

You know someone lacks intellectual depth when these 8 habits dominate their communication style - Silicon Canals

I've interviewed over 200 people for articles, from startup founders to burned-out middle managers, and I've discovered something fascinating: intellectual depth isn't about fancy degrees or knowing obscure facts. It shows up in how we communicate. When certain habits dominate someone's style, it reveals a concerning lack of curiosity and critical thinking that goes beyond just being annoying-it fundamentally limits their ability to engage with the world meaningfully.
Philosophy
fromInsideHook
4 weeks ago

The Case for Eavesdropping

There's nothing like eavesdropping to show you that the world outside your head is different from the world inside your head. It doesn't get nearly enough credit. Instead of being understood as an uncouth behavior, "overhearing" should be celebrated, welcomed and pursued. It's an underrated tool in an increasingly lonely and disconnected world.
Psychology
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago

Psychology says people who instinctively soften their language in emails and texts are not being polite. They are running a real-time calculation about how much honesty the relationship can survive. - Silicon Canals

Softened language in communication reflects a calculated assessment of relationship capacity to handle directness, not mere politeness, functioning as a survival mechanism to protect relational dynamics.
fromblog.apaonline.org
2 months ago

How to Handle the Death of the Essay

If you don't know it, Ecclesiastes is a collection of Old Testament verses in which the eponymous title character discourses on the apparent meaninglessness of pleasure, accomplishment, wealth, politics, and life itself in the face of the infinitude of the universe and the absolute perfection of God. It is the source of many of our most cliched phrases, such as there is a time for everything and there is nothing new under the sun.
Philosophy
Relationships
fromHuffPost
2 months ago

10 Passive-Aggressive Phrases You Shouldn't Use With Your Friends

Passive-aggressive behavior undermines friendship communication and resilience; addressing hurt feelings directly strengthens relationships and prevents tension.
Philosophy
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

How Meanings Became Shareable Across Minds

Human meaning transformed from immediate, context-bound signs to public, conventional symbols enabling abstraction, analogy, and cumulative cultural transmission.
Psychology
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 months ago

I see sounds as shapes. Synaesthesia has given me an extraordinary ability for languages

Auditory-visual synaesthesia produces vivid visual imagery from sound, facilitating exceptional language learning but complicating everyday tasks like driving with loud music.
fromOpen Culture
1 month ago

Why Some People Think in Words, While Others Think in Pictures & Feelings

Take the sur­prise some have expressed in recent years upon find­ing out that the expres­sion to "pic­ture" some­thing in one's head isn't just a fig­ure of speech. You mean that peo­ple "pic­tur­ing an apple," say, haven't been just think­ing about an apple, but actu­al­ly see­ing one in their heads? The inabil­i­ty to do that has a name: aphan­ta­sia, from the Greek word phan­ta­sia, "image," and prefix - a, "with­out."
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago

Psychology says these 8 behaviors signal quiet authority long before someone speaks - Silicon Canals

You know that person in the meeting who barely says anything, yet somehow everyone turns to them when decisions need to be made? I've been fascinated by this phenomenon ever since I started interviewing people for my articles. After talking to over 200 folks ranging from startup founders to middle managers, I noticed something striking: the ones who commanded the most respect weren't always the loudest voices in the room.
Psychology
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago

How you answer the phone in the first 2 seconds reveals more about where you grew up than your zip code your car or your degree, and the people who grew up wealthy hear it instantly - Silicon Canals

Phone-answering style reveals social background through tone, wording, and timing, acting as a social fingerprint that signals class and habitus.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 months ago

8 social signals that quietly say "don't mess with me" without being rude - Silicon Canals

Small, consistent social signals—like steady, balanced eye contact—communicate clear boundaries and elicit automatic respect without confrontation.
fromSilicon Canals
2 months ago

Do you use these 10 phrases regularly? Psychology says you have an exceptionally strong personality - Silicon Canals

Ever noticed how some people just seem unshakeable? They navigate criticism with grace, stand their ground without being aggressive, and somehow manage to stay authentic even when everyone else is playing politics. After interviewing over 200 people for various articles, from startup founders to burned-out middle managers, I've noticed something fascinating: the strongest personalities often share a common vocabulary. Not fancy words or corporate jargon, but simple phrases that reveal how they think about themselves and the world.
Psychology
fromHuffPost
2 months ago

Ever Wondered 'Am I Annoying?' These Body Language Signs Might Be The Answer.

We've all been there: mid-story, mid-vent, mid-enthusiastic ramble, and suddenly the other person's energy shifts. Their smile fades. Their eyes wander down to their phone. Their whole body seems to quietly scream: "Please stop." Most of us don't realize when we're annoying someone. We just think we're being ourselves. We might think we're offering the type of advice our spouse really needs to hear right now.
Psychology
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 months ago

8 conversation habits that signal low emotional intelligence-and most people who have them think they're great communicators - Silicon Canals

Dominating conversations and self-focused habits often signal low emotional intelligence and poor listening, not superior communication.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

When Two Brains Meet

Human brains are wired to seek and reward social connection; even brief moments of joint attention and acknowledgment produce meaningful neural and psychological benefits.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago

If someone does these 10 things around you, they dislike you far more than their smile suggests - Silicon Canals

People often display polite social warmth while subtly signaling dislike through lack of curiosity and other nonverbal cues.
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