fromSlate Magazine
6 hours agoMy Wife Always Says the Same Thing After We Have Sex. But Her Actions Don't Match Up.
Sex with my wife seems so fraught these days. There's so much baggage. It has to be scheduled. OK, fine. I came on to her last night, but she said, "No, wait until tomorrow when it's scheduled." Then, when the scheduled time arrived, she said she couldn't do it because she had a work call. She also said she doesn't want to do it, but she will do it later to make me happy. That (not enthusiastically consenting sex) doesn't make me happy.
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