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Arts
fromwww.theguardian.com
11 hours ago

Art, sex, nature: why is everything sold to us as a means to an end, rather than an end in itself?

Art should be valued for its own sake, not merely for its utilitarian benefits or health claims.
#love
#happiness
fromPsychology Today
16 hours ago
Mindfulness

Is Your Pursuit of Happiness Making You Sad?

Valuing happiness as a goal can lead to emotional bankruptcy and a self-defeating cycle of constant internal surveillance.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago

Psychology says people who seem genuinely happy aren't people who have more - they're people who stopped measuring what they have against what they imagined they should have by now - Silicon Canals

Imagined life standards create a perpetual sense of inadequacy, while true happiness comes from questioning these standards rather than merely achieving them.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago

Psychology says people who seem genuinely happy aren't people who have more - they're people who stopped measuring what they have against what they imagined they should have by now - Silicon Canals

Imagined life standards create a perpetual sense of inadequacy, while true happiness comes from questioning these standards rather than merely achieving them.
Arts
fromHyperallergic
1 week ago

The Unbearable Strangeness of Being

Cinga Samson's paintings evoke a haunting, incomprehensible world reflecting historical scars and spiritual alertness through unsettling imagery.
Books
fromThe Atlantic
2 weeks ago

How Long Can You Live Your Ideals?

Pat Calhoun chooses parenthood over radicalism, paralleling Elsa Haddish's struggle between her militant past and raising her daughter safely.
fromPsychology Today
2 weeks ago

Lessons for Modern Living From Henry David Thoreau

Thoreau responded to the technological upheavals and social strife of the mid-1800s by choosing to temporarily step away from the everyday turbulence of that time to live more simply, thoughtfully, and purposefully.
Film
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 weeks ago

Daunting, inspiring, comforting, terrifying: the writers who can make silence as eloquent as words

A vision lay before him: Fleet Street blanketed with snow, silent, empty, pure white, and, at the end of it, the huge and majestic form of Saint Paul's Cathedral. It was a spellbinding moment: the great thoroughfare temporarily devoid of carts and carriages, the cathedral looming blurrily out of the still-falling snowflakes a real-life snow globe.
London
fromPhilosophynow
1 week ago

What do I have to fear, have I ever diminished by dying?

What do I have to fear, have I ever diminished by dying? I died as lifeless matter and became growing vegetation, then I died as a plant and reached animality. I died as an animal and became human.
Mindfulness
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

Should You 'Rage Against the Dying of the Light'?

Fighting against death can be noble but may lead to futility and emotional strain, while acceptance offers liberation and wisdom.
fromPsychology Today
2 weeks ago

Why Aesthetic Experience Is a Rich Source of Happiness

The brain processes aesthetic experience like other rewards, such as food or money, indicating that the appreciation of beauty is deeply rooted in our neurological responses.
Productivity
fromPhilosophynow
1 week ago

Love & Emptiness in the Sufi Tradition

Rumi argues that to love is to enter the unknown: to love is to empty the self of all self-knowledge entirely. He believes that emptiness is a paradoxical state of infinite fullness, allowing for the purest form of love and union with the divine.
Philosophy
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 weeks ago

William Shakespeare's Romeo+Juliet review Baz Luhrmann's joyful tragedy is still extravagantly full of life

Baz Luhrmann reinvented Shakespeare's Romeo and Juliet as a gangbanger love tragedy of the present day, with Mexico City standing in for an imaginary urban place called Verona Beach. The result was a terrific success, more of a success, I suspect, than Luhrmann ever had again; it was irreverent and questioning in just the right way, a sunburst of energy, but instinctively respectful to the story.
Film
Television
fromThe Atlantic
3 weeks ago

The People Are Starved for Romance

Vladimir fails to deliver genuine chemistry and emotional connection, relying instead on superficial motifs of desire and repetitive fantasies.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
3 weeks ago

I've Fallen in Love. But This Is the One Sort of Person I'm Not "Supposed" to Be With.

Sexual orientation and romantic attraction can be fluid and evolve throughout life; mutual love and attraction are valuable regardless of how they fit previous self-definitions.
fromPhilosophynow
1 week ago

The Mirror & the Flame

Attar's 'Conference of the Birds' follows a flock of souls seeking the Simorgh, symbolizing the Divine, through seven valleys, ultimately revealing the Divine as a reflection of the self in relation with others.
Philosophy
Writing
fromThe Nation
2 weeks ago

When Did the Natural World Stop Feeling Sublime?

Coleridge's poem illustrates the tension between nature and industrialization, highlighting the unseen consequences of human actions on the environment.
#philosophy
Philosophy
fromPhilosophynow
1 week ago

Philosophers on Skiing

Philosophers occasionally write about unconventional topics like buildings, food, and winter sports, expanding their focus beyond traditional themes.
fromPhilosophynow
1 week ago

Life Sacrifice

The widespread practice of showing the Eid Al Adha slaughtering to children can desensitize them to violence, as many families take pride in this tradition.
Philosophy
Writing
fromThe Walrus
3 weeks ago

Frankenstein Taught Me the Classics Are Alive, They're Really Alive! | The Walrus

Frankenstein explores themes of unchecked ambition and responsibility, paralleling modern concerns about artificial intelligence and the creation of consciousness.
fromThe New Yorker
1 month ago

How China Learned to Love the Classics

It wasn't until Whitmarsh had been herded into the main hall that he grasped what he'd signed up for: 'a geopolitical event, not an intellectual one,' as he put it, with hosts including Greece and China's ministries of culture.
World politics
Writing
fromBig Think
3 weeks ago

The medieval "love story" that was really a tale of psychological abuse

Resilience is essential in facing challenges, as exemplified by Odysseus and Penelope's enduring hope and strength during their long separations.
fromArtnet News
1 month ago

Previously Unseen Dante Gabriel Rossetti Portrait Goes on View for the First Time

Unlike Rossetti's Pre-Raphaelite paintings of winsome maidens surrounded by flowers, the 1877 chalk portrait of his sister offers a flat, realistic impression. She wears an impenetrable expression and dull-colored clothing that blends into an unadorned background. The somber tone is the product of family tragedy: Christina remains in mourning following the death of her older sister Maria, a writer and Anglican nun, in 1876.
Arts
Philosophy
fromNature
3 weeks ago

How the idea of human superiority over nature was invented

Humans are part of nature, not separate from it, and this relationship shapes our understanding of ourselves and other animals.
Books
fromThe New Yorker
1 month ago

Rimbaud and Verlaine in Washington Square Park

Richard Hell's novel 'Godlike' transposes a nineteenth-century French poets' affair to 1970s New York, exploring themes of sex, violence, and self-determination through punk culture.
Philosophy
fromThe Nation
3 weeks ago

The Hidden History of Free Choice

Choice became central to modern freedom through 17th-century developments in shopping and religious freedom, fundamentally reshaping how societies understand liberty across consumer, romantic, political, and ideological spheres.
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

The Health Benefits of Looking at Beauty

Beauty, it turns out, is capable of launching not just an armada of ships, but a cascade of the same feel-good chemicals you get from being in love, eating chocolate, exercising, and having orgasms- dopamine, endorphins, serotonin, oxytocin. It also lowers stress, blood pressure, and heart rate.
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Science
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

What Is Life?

Life's definition remains scientifically elusive, with origin theories suggesting asteroids triggered chemical cascades enabling self-organizing molecules to develop memory, agency, and consciousness from inert matter.
NYC LGBT
fromQueerty
1 month ago

This Victorian era teen lesbian love affair ended in murder, consumption... & an opera - Queerty

Alice Mitchell murdered her lover Freda Ward in 1892 Memphis, shocking Victorian society with evidence of a passionate lesbian relationship between two middle-class women.
LGBT
fromQueerty
2 months ago

The Myth of Greek Sex: How Oscar Wilde, some steamy classics & a century of bias rewrote ancient queer love - Queerty

Homophobia in the West originated across the ancient Mediterranean amid crises—inequality, fear, and obsession with self-control—transforming previously accepted queer love into sin.
Relationships
fromThe Atlantic
1 month ago

An Enduring Assumption About Love

Stated preferences rarely determine romantic outcomes; chemistry, timing, shared experiences, and gradual emotional development predict lasting relationships more than declared "types."
fromPolygon
8 months ago

Time Flies when you're thinking about dying

So long as I manage to avoid lightbulbs or stay out of wine glasses, the buzzing will inevitably give way to silence. My wings will abruptly stop flapping and I'll careen towards the ground like an asteroid. I'll become a speck on a rug, a bit of debris absent-mindedly vacuumed up by someone who has no idea what adventures I've been on in the past minute.
Video games
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago

Why some of us build entire worlds inside our heads and then feel homesick for places that never existed - Silicon Canals

Elaborate inner worlds built through imagination are common cognitive features that fulfill emotional needs, characterized by specific details and consistent logic that can persist for decades.
Music
fromwww.npr.org
1 month ago

Why music has become such a big part of the romance novel reading experience

Romance novel readers increasingly use pop music playlists to enhance their reading experiences, creating a community that bridges book fandom and music fandom, exemplified by Charli XCX's Wuthering Heights album.
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 months ago

Readers replies: how can we learn from unrequited love?

True love is not transactional. If we only love on the expectation of being loved back, then it is not love, it is bartering. Love is unconditional. I love you, and that is all and everything. You do not need to do anything. You do not need to reciprocate. You do not even need to know.
Relationships
fromFrenchly
2 months ago

7 Famous French Love Poems (with English Translations) - Frenchly

Need a French poem to impress your date or S.O.? Love is in the air and here at Frenchly, we've got you covered. The French language has long been considered the language of romance, and French poetry is a beautiful way to say "je t'aime" to your love. Here are seven French love poems that will sweep anyone off their feet. We've included the original French version of each poem, along with their English translation.
Books
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

The Link Between Thinking and Being

Metaphors are linked to how we experience the world around us, according to seminal work by researchers George Lakoff and Mark Johnson. In English, we "move forward" with our lives and don't "retreat into" the past. We speak about people who are "cold as ice" and "heavy" matters we need to resolve. Some of these metaphorical expressions are more than just, well, expressions-they are actually based on our sensory experiences. This mind-body link is called "embodied cognition."
Science
Philosophy
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

Understanding Existential Psychology in a Global Context

Existential psychology was first labeled in the West but does not belong to the West; cultural humility and global dialogue are essential for advancing existential therapy across diverse contexts.
Books
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 months ago

Poem of the week: To Wordsworth by Percy Bysshe Shelley

Shelley accuses Wordsworth of abandoning radical political commitment, mourning lost intensity and accusing him of an easier resignation of moral and poetic power.
fromThe Conversation
1 month ago

Today's obsession with authenticity isn't new - being true to yourself has troubled philosophers for centuries

All of us live in an age where we're bombarded by social media and artificial intelligence - when striving to be your authentic self becomes an increasingly difficult task. Yet, even if it has somehow become a common goal, it is unclear how many of us can truly define the "authenticity" that we say we are pursuing.
Philosophy
Film
fromVulture
2 months ago

Sometimes, It Helps to Look at Another Human's Face

Sam Green's film interweaves portraits of supercentenarians with his own life—birth, cancer diagnosis—creating an evolving, live documentary about aging, mortality, and records.
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

The Mind's Search for Meaning

Have you ever experienced an encounter with an image in the sky or thought that the lyrics to your favourite song related to your personal life? These are examples of having moments that are either unsettling, poetic, or just plain strange. Such experiences are known as apophenia, expressions of our innate tendency to find patterns and attribute meaning to things that are random.
Psychology
#passionate-love
Books
fromThe Atlantic
2 months ago

Why Tennyson Feels So Modern

Young Alfred, Lord Tennyson absorbed unsettling scientific ideas, shaping his melancholic temperament and the themes of belief crisis in his poetry.
Mindfulness
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago

The art of needing less: 8 habits of people who stopped chasing happiness and accidentally found it - Silicon Canals

Happiness grows from needing less and adopting simple habits like accepting "good enough", prioritizing experiences, and releasing the relentless pursuit of perfection.
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

Burn Your Romance Novels!

The short answer is yes, unless you take fiction for what it is-fiction. When you long for something you don't have, it can lead to dissatisfaction with what you DO have. Romantic fiction has witty, heartfelt dialogue, buckets of romantic gestures, and protagonists who have a preternatural ability to read each other's minds. It's easy to forget it is not real. This can set up unrealistic expectations both conscious and unconscious.
Relationships
fromThe Conversation
1 month ago

What is happiness? A philosopher looks for answers

Happiness today is narrowly defined by some positive psychologists as a joyous state of mind or well-being. The happiness sciences see it as something you can calculate and quantify. They developed a Happiness Index and the World Happiness Report. These basically measure happiness as satisfaction, with criteria like gross domestic product per capita (money) and life expectancy (health) as some of the factors considered.
Philosophy
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

The Simple Feeling of Being

The simple feeling of being is the fundamental basis of every momentary perception. What's happening right now is the only starting point there could ever be. The simple feeling of being is without border or boundary. The simple feeling of being is inescapable. It is not something that needs to be created or generated or sustained or practiced. It is what is here already.
Mindfulness
fromNature
1 month ago

'What are we doing here?' The polymaths who searched for the meaning of life

A mentor once told me that, when writing a research statement for a professorship, I had to start with the most ambitious pitch I could imagine - and then go ten times bigger. It's tricky enough to do this as a cosmologist, given that the topic of study is the entire Universe. But there is a quest that is more ambitious still: to find out 'what are we doing here?'
Books
#alfred-tennyson
Books
fromThe New Yorker
2 months ago

How Do You Write About the Inexplicable?

Rational skepticism coexists with a persistent tendency to personify evil and read coincidences as omens.
Books
fromwww.nytimes.com
1 month ago

Romance Glossary: An A-Z Guide of Tropes and Themes to Find Your Next Book

Lists 101 romance-genre terms (e.g., cinnamon roll, shadow daddy, fae) to help readers identify subgenres and find recommended books.
Philosophy
fromThe Conversation
2 months ago

Why Aristotle would hate Valentine's Day - and his five steps to love

True love is a steady, everyday commitment to help a partner grow into their best self, not a one-day display of grand gestures.
Philosophy
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

How Did Meaning Emerge in a Meaningless Universe?

Meaning arises when physical correlations acquire evolutionary significance in living systems, grounding aboutness in biological value, neural representations, social symbols, and cultural narratives.
Philosophy
fromThe Conversation
2 months ago

An existentialist philosopher on why we should not let fear dictate love

Love can operate as a comforting illusion promising wholeness, while existentialism locates human incompleteness in thrownness and the responsibility to create meaning.
fromApaonline
2 months ago

Philosophy, Technology, and Mortality

This APA Blog series has broadly explored philosophy and technology with a throughline on the influence of technology and AI on well-being. This month's post brings those themes into focus recounting a vital Washington Post Opinion piece by friend of the APA Blog, Samuel Kimbriel. Samuel is the founding director of the Aspen Institute's Philosophy and Society Initiative and Editor at Large for Wisdom of Crowds. We collaborated on a Substack Newsletter about intellectual ambition, building on his essay, Thinking is Risky.
Philosophy
Philosophy
fromThe Conversation
1 month ago

I'm a philosopher who tries to see the best in others - but I know there are limits

Interpreting others charitably—seeing them as protagonists who do their best—promotes understanding, cooperation, and productive learning across differences.
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 month ago

Move over stoics! Why we should all embrace nihilism and discover what really matters in life | Gemma Parker

I was suspicious, even cynical, about what the world insisted was vital to the life of my unborn child. I was partly sceptical because so much of the advice I was getting was contradictory. But I was also suspicious because I'd spent most of my 20s reading Nietzsche. Nietzsche is not, perhaps, a natural choice for a young mother. But he helps to fuel certain questions about values, and purpose, that are central to questions of care.
Philosophy
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

What's the Point of Philosophy?

Unlike me, Dan Dennett, or-I suspect-most scientists studying the brain, Richard maintains that science is: i) neutral between the view that consciousness is (to simplify) identical to parts of your brain and what goes on inside of it, and the view that consciousness is a fundamental property of reality, found in all particles of matter (or, for that matter, other theories such as dualism and idealism) and ii) to be sharply distinguished from philosophy.
Philosophy
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

If Justice Doesn't Exist, Then Numbers Don't Either

A drawn circle is at least something physical. You can see it, touch it, erase it. The skeptic can still say, "Circles are grounded in physical reality. Justice is different; it's just an idea in your head." So let's talk about the number two. Point to it. Not two apples, not two fingers, not a numeral on a page-that's just a symbol.
Philosophy
Philosophy
fromenglish.elpais.com
2 months ago

Peter Neumann, philosopher: Without the idea of progress, only resignation remains'

The twentieth century combined catastrophic events with persistent utopian projects that, despite failures, shaped cultural responses and attempts to reinvent society.
Philosophy
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

What We Get Wrong About Human Dignity

Dignity is inherent and unconditional; making dignity conditional, earned, or reduced to niceness or status destroys true human worth and respect.
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

A Third Kind of Philosophy

Many philosophers strike me as like Polish apparatchiks in 1983-they turn up to work and do what they did yesterday just because they don't know what else to do, not because they seriously believe in the system they are maintaining. I think it's not been fully appreciated how much of a blow it is to the confidence of the field's youth that scientific ambitions are increasingly abandoned as untenable.
Philosophy
Philosophy
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

Choosing Simplicity Over Artificiality

Simplicity, defined as freedom from artificiality, fosters genuine self-worth and preserves dignity against seductive glamour, admiration, and excessive acquisition.
Philosophy
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

The Myth of Progress

Relentless pursuit of progress can shrink life, prioritizing efficiency and achievements over health, relationships, and meaningful depth—becoming a poisoned gift.
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