Valentine's Day is out there with fire, arguing about who forgot what, and pretending not to look at who clicked on your Instagram story. Every year, in a big way, the day reminds us that we are all still very committed to love, maybe even irrationally so.
We typically believe that the person who is "dumped" during a breakup suffers so much more than the person ending the relationship (the dumper). We think the person who is dumped does not want the relationship to be over, wants to try and fix it, keep it going, stay in contact-anything but end it.
A sad reality of sexual life is that no matter how hot a partner you have managed to attract and how crazy fun sex has been between you, we almost always habituate to a sexual partner and their attractiveness over time. Even the most beautiful celebrity couples in the world probably struggle with this.