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Psychology
fromPsychology Today
14 hours ago

Why Confidence Doesn't Always Reflect True Self-Worth

Authentic self-worth is grounded in presence and self-acceptance, contrasting with fragile self-worth tied to external perceptions.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
3 days ago

Psychology says if you want your 70s to be the best years of your life you have to stop doing something most people don't quit until it's too late - and the quitting isn't dramatic, it's just the daily decision to stop measuring yourself by a standard that was always someone else's and never actually yours - Silicon Canals

Measuring worth by external standards leads to dissatisfaction; true value comes from personal fulfillment, not societal expectations.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
14 hours ago

Why Confidence Doesn't Always Reflect True Self-Worth

Authentic self-worth is grounded in presence and self-acceptance, contrasting with fragile self-worth tied to external perceptions.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
3 days ago

Psychology says if you want your 70s to be the best years of your life you have to stop doing something most people don't quit until it's too late - and the quitting isn't dramatic, it's just the daily decision to stop measuring yourself by a standard that was always someone else's and never actually yours - Silicon Canals

Measuring worth by external standards leads to dissatisfaction; true value comes from personal fulfillment, not societal expectations.
#spirituality
Mindfulness
fromPsychology Today
2 days ago

How to Embrace Being "More" Spiritual

Awareness of the transcendent reveals depth and meaning in life, fostering spiritual growth and a sense of oneness with the world.
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 week ago
Philosophy

I don't know what God is. But the search keeps me grounded and feeling alive | Karen Rinaldi

Finding God amidst uncertainty can be a grounding practice during challenging times.
Mindfulness
fromPsychology Today
2 days ago

How to Embrace Being "More" Spiritual

Awareness of the transcendent reveals depth and meaning in life, fostering spiritual growth and a sense of oneness with the world.
Philosophy
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 week ago

I don't know what God is. But the search keeps me grounded and feeling alive | Karen Rinaldi

Finding God amidst uncertainty can be a grounding practice during challenging times.
Writing
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago

I'm 66 and the most important relationship of my adult life has been with solitude - not as a consolation for the company I didn't have, but as the place where I have always been most honest, most creative, and most recognizably myself, and I spent too many years being embarrassed about that before I understood it was simply how I was built - Silicon Canals

Solitude allows for self-discovery and personal reflection, free from societal expectations and external pressures.
#onetaste
Women in technology
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 days ago

What to know about the controversial practice of orgasmic meditation'

Nicole Daedone's OneTaste, promoting orgasmic meditation, faced severe backlash after coercion allegations led to her federal prison sentence.
fromsfist.com
5 days ago
NYC startup

Founder of Cult-y SF Orgasmic Meditation' Group Gets Nine-Year Sentence In Forced Labor Trial

Women in technology
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 days ago

What to know about the controversial practice of orgasmic meditation'

Nicole Daedone's OneTaste, promoting orgasmic meditation, faced severe backlash after coercion allegations led to her federal prison sentence.
fromsfist.com
5 days ago
NYC startup

Founder of Cult-y SF Orgasmic Meditation' Group Gets Nine-Year Sentence In Forced Labor Trial

fromApaonline
4 days ago

Gratitude, Belonging, and Philosophy

"I want to look back and share two lessons I think others would benefit from hearing: (1) remember that you belong, and (2) embrace the value of philosophy, especially in trying times."
Philosophy
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago

Psychology says people who feel like they've been living someone else's life aren't confused or ungrateful - they're often the ones who were so good at adapting in childhood that they never stopped adapting long enough to find out who they actually were - Silicon Canals

Adapting to others' needs in childhood can lead to feeling disconnected and lost in adulthood.
#yoga
#emotional-neglect
fromSilicon Canals
3 days ago
Relationships

I'm 66 and I finally learned the hardest lesson isn't that people will disappoint you - it's that you'll disappoint yourself by pretending you don't need what you need until you forget what that even was - Silicon Canals

fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago
Parenting

I meditated every morning for three years and I was still the most reactive person in every room I walked into - and a monk in Thailand told me the problem wasn't my practice, it was that I was using stillness as preparation for chaos instead of learning to find stillness inside the chaos itself - Silicon Canals

Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
3 days ago

I'm 66 and I finally learned the hardest lesson isn't that people will disappoint you - it's that you'll disappoint yourself by pretending you don't need what you need until you forget what that even was - Silicon Canals

Neglecting emotional needs leads to a profound sense of loss and disconnection from oneself and others.
Parenting
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago

I meditated every morning for three years and I was still the most reactive person in every room I walked into - and a monk in Thailand told me the problem wasn't my practice, it was that I was using stillness as preparation for chaos instead of learning to find stillness inside the chaos itself - Silicon Canals

Emotional neglect occurs when parents provide materially but fail to be emotionally present for their children.
Mindfulness
fromMindful
1 week ago

Just One Thing: Be Kind to Yourself by Being Kind to Others

Recognizing the importance of kindness to others leads to personal peace and fulfillment.
Psychology
fromTiny Buddha
3 days ago

The Pressure to Dream Big and the Beauty of Wanting Less - Tiny Buddha

Pursuing financial success often overshadows the desire for a simple, fulfilling life, leading to societal pressure to dream big.
Mindfulness
fromMindful
4 days ago

A Meditation to Allow Genuine Happiness, Even In Hard Times

Accessing genuine happiness during difficult times is essential for recovery and well-being.
Silicon Valley
fromBusiness Insider
2 weeks ago

Marc Andreessen explains why he won't be jumping on Silicon Valley's ayahuasca trend

Marc Andreessen avoids psychedelics because he has observed tech founders who use them become peaceful but abandon their companies to pursue alternative lifestyles, preferring caffeine as his stimulant instead.
#buddhism
Psychology
fromFast Company
5 days ago

Why your successful life doesn't leave you fulfilled

Success is subjective; many feel unfulfilled despite achievements due to societal comparisons and not pursuing personal desires.
#meditation
Mindfulness
fromMindful
6 days ago

Feeling Like a Fraud in Your Own Mindfulness Practice

Surrounding oneself with experienced meditation practitioners can raise personal expectations and feelings of inadequacy during difficult times.
Mindfulness
fromMindful
6 days ago

Feeling Like a Fraud in Your Own Mindfulness Practice

Surrounding oneself with experienced meditation practitioners can raise personal expectations and feelings of inadequacy during difficult times.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
6 days ago

I'm 66 and the thing I learned too late isn't that I should have traveled more or worked less - it's that I spent forty years waiting for permission to want things - Silicon Canals

Waiting for permission to want things can lead to missed opportunities and unfulfilled desires.
Mindfulness
fromTiny Buddha
6 days ago

How to Tend to Yourself When Being Vulnerable Feels Raw - Tiny Buddha

Vulnerability and storytelling foster connection and healing, despite the fear of oversharing.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

Holding Inspired Authority

Effective authority fosters growth through listening, modeling behaviors, and celebrating achievements, avoiding both abuse and abdication.
Philosophy
fromThe Conversation
2 weeks ago

The long history of silent meditation retreats and the individuals who helped shape them

Burmese meditation master Sayagyi U Ba Khin's 10-day silent mindfulness retreats became a foundational model for secular meditation practices now widespread in the United States.
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

What If You're Fundamentally Not Flawed?

But we are all as an unclean thing, and all our righteousness are as filthy rags; and we all do fade as a leaf; and our iniquities, like the wind, have taken us away. It was bracing language for an 8-year-old. Not only was I unclean, but even my best attempt at goodness was filthy.
Writing
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

Practicing Radical Curiosity: Rethinking Who You Are

Challenging the inner voice and fostering self-compassion are essential for cultivating radical curiosity toward ourselves and others.
Philosophy
fromPsychology Today
3 weeks ago

May Confusion Dawn As Wisdom

Confusion can be a pathway to wisdom and understanding rather than an obstacle to overcome, as demonstrated through Zen Buddhist practice and contemporary art.
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

Why Trying Too Hard Keeps You Stuck: The Art of Letting Go

Letting go means releasing the emotional grip of memories through acceptance, not suppressing emotions or condoning harmful behavior, which reduces stress and opens the mind to positive experiences.
Science
fromThe New Yorker
1 month ago

How Michael Pollan Expanded His Consciousness

Michael Pollan's "A World Appears" explores consciousness by combining neuroscience, philosophy, literature, and psychedelics research to understand how neurons create selfhood and why consciousness evolved.
Mindfulness
fromPsychology Today
2 weeks ago

Using a Beginner's Mind

Beginner's mind, rooted in Zen practice, enables conscious observation of present moments through widened perception, revealing unique interrelationships and sustaining well-being by treating time as an active verb rather than static noun.
fromhttps://www.arogyayogaschool.com/blog
1 month ago

The Overstimulated Mind: What Yoga Philosophy Teaches About Inner Balance

At the heart of yoga philosophy is the belief that stillness is not simply the absence of movement, but a profound engagement with our inner landscape. Practices such as asana (postures), pranayama (breath control), and meditation serve as gateways to this stillness, allowing us to cultivate awareness amidst chaos. Through these disciplines, we learn to quiet the mind's incessant chatter and tune into our true essence.
Yoga
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
3 weeks ago

How to Break Free From Expectations and Live Authentically

A child's self-worth and life choices become distorted when built on a parent's fabricated achievements and false expectations.
#mindfulness
Mindfulness
fromYogaRenew
3 weeks ago

Mindfulness for Self-compassion

Mindfulness and self-compassion transform self-judgment into kindness, building emotional resilience and wellbeing through present-moment awareness and acceptance.
fromHarvard Gazette
2 months ago
Mindfulness

Your brain on advanced meditation - Harvard Gazette

Mindfulness reduces stress, anxiety, and improves mood; advanced meditation may produce transcendent states and is being studied by clinical researchers.
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago
Mindfulness

Can This Moment Be Enough?

Peace arises by allowing the present moment without attaching self-worth or happiness to fulfilling desires; stop arguing with reality to reduce suffering.
Mindfulness
fromYogaRenew
3 weeks ago

Mindfulness for Self-compassion

Mindfulness and self-compassion transform self-judgment into kindness, building emotional resilience and wellbeing through present-moment awareness and acceptance.
fromFuncheap
2 months ago

Atomic vs Satori

Come join us for the clash (more like a love-fest) of two beloved San Jose staple nights! Satori and Atomic have been putting on memorable dance parties in San Jose full of new and classic Goth, Darkwave, New Wave, Electro, Indie and Industrial for decades. For one night only, we unite to play all the bangers until you just can't dance anymore!
Music
Social justice
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

When I'm Right, I'm Most in Danger of Being Wrong

A boutique's curated, optimistic branding is undermined by an offensive, glittered jacket displayed where nearby schoolgirls frequently pass.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

Who Would You Be if No One Was Watching?

The spotlight effect causes people to edit their lives for an imaginary audience, creating unnecessary suffering through overestimated judgment from others.
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

When You Know Better but Do It Anyway

We live in an era saturated with information. In a matter of minutes, we can find answers to both simple questions ("What's a good birthday gift for a 9-year-old boy?") and complex ones ("What's the optimal diet for a 40-year-old woman trying to build muscle?"). While some decisions are in fact deeply nuanced, most of the struggles that undermine our well-being are not caused by a lack of knowledge.
Mental health
fromThe New Yorker
2 months ago

Molly Aitken on the Rajneesh Movement and Our Need for Connection

He's straitlaced and inexperienced, reeling from the turbulence of his family life and in search of stability. Why is he so easily pulled out of the existence he's been struggling to establish? It is funny that you say Malcolm is searching for stability, because he does find it with the Rajneesh, who, to many, would probably be judged as unstable. Malcolm is feeling disconnected from his community and his father, and, without being very conscious of it, is searching for meaning.
Relationships
Philosophy
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

The Myth of Progress

Relentless pursuit of progress can shrink life, prioritizing efficiency and achievements over health, relationships, and meaningful depth—becoming a poisoned gift.
Relationships
fromMindful
1 month ago

How to Fall in Love & Uncover Happiness in 4 Minutes or Less

Sustained love arises from cultivating connection through vulnerability, prolonged eye contact, and recognizing shared human needs for care, understanding, acceptance, and belonging.
Yoga
fromYOGMAY
1 month ago

Chakras in Yoga Explained: Meaning, Mantras & Healing

Chakras are psycho-energetic centers along the spine that regulate physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual functions and respond to vibrational practices like mantra in Nada Yoga.
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

Break Free Of Your Own Reality Bubble

The word umwelt comes from biology, coined by ethologists studying animals in their natural habitats. It refers to the world as an organism can perceive it, based entirely on its sensory equipment. A bat's umwelt is built from echo. A dog's from scent. A tick's world is dominated by a single chemical cue that tells it when to drop from a branch onto a passing mammal.
Philosophy
fromYoga Journal
2 months ago

How to Quiet Your Mind, According to Yoga

Popular definitions of yoga often include terms such as balance, harmony, health, and peace. While these qualities are certainly desirable, and must be created before one can enter the state of fixity, or yoga, they are not included in the definition Patanjali offers us in his Yoga Sutras, the classic second-century B.C. exposition generally accepted as the bible of yoga.
Yoga
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 month ago

I'm the psychedelic confessor': the man who turned a generation on to hallucinogens returns with a head-spinning book about consciousness

Several years ago, Michael Pollan had a disturbing encounter. The relentlessly curious journalist and author was at a conference on plant behaviour in Vancouver. There, he'd learned that when plants are damaged, they produce an anaesthetising chemical, ethylene. Was this a form of self-soothing, like the release of endorphins after an injury in humans? He asked Frantisek Baluska, a cell biologist, if it meant that plants might feel pain. Baluska paused, before answering: Yes, they should feel pain.
Philosophy
#buddhi
fromYoga Journal
2 months ago

This Grateful Dead Yoga Playlist is What We All Need Right Now

With the passing of the band's rhythm guitarist, Bob Weir, many of us are sitting with yet another quiet, unexpected grief amid a world that seems perpetually heavy. And The Grateful Dead has long been a companion to our shared experiences, and their work continues to resonate in wellness, yoga, and ritual spaces. Because it was never just about music.
Yoga
fromYogaRenew
2 months ago

The Ahankara

They look nervously at the cameras. The prize, they are told, is beyond description, but "it is what everyone wants!" The first question is asked: "Who are you?" The fastest contestant with the buzzer rings in - "Michelle!" they cry out confidently. BUZZ - the sound for the wrong answer rings out loudly. Another contestant seizes the moment and squeezes their buzzer. "A Man!" he states with utmost confidence. BUZZ - wrong again.
Philosophy
Mindfulness
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

Early Signs of Spiritual Awakening

Spiritual awakening involves heightened self-awareness, dissatisfaction with external experiences, increased sensitivity, and emotional release leading to deeper understanding of self and reality.
#ahankara
Philosophy
fromYoga Journal
1 month ago

Insights Into Overcoming Fear, According to a 20th Century Sage

Sri Nisargadatta Maharaj, born Maruti Kampli in 1897, moved from Bombay bidi shop owner to devoted spiritual seeker and attained realization between 1933 and 1936.
Mindfulness
fromThe Atlantic
2 months ago

The Sacredness of the Everyday

Joan Halifax combines deep contemplative practice with sustained, hands-on compassionate action across medical missions, hospice care, prison ministry, homelessness work, and peace activism.
Philosophy
fromPhilosophynow
2 months ago

Gyara Is All There Is

Stoic resilience allows freedom through reason, requiring persistent virtue and inner resolve to withstand exile and nature’s indifferent forces.
Mindfulness
fromKALTBLUT Magazine
2 months ago

Rina Rain's "Om Mani Padme Hum" as a Practice of Presence - KALTBLUT Magazine

Gentle, breath-centered chanting and intimate vocals guide listeners into inner stillness and contemplative presence through conscious mantra repetition.
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 month ago

I drove hours to see the monks walking for peace. Five minutes with them was the gift of a lifetime

The monks are part of a 2,300-mile pilgrimage for peace from a Buddhist temple in Fort Worth, Texas, across nine states to Washington DC. Dressed in vibrant orange robes, they have walked about 20 miles daily, eating one meal a day and practicing loving-kindness a form of mindfulness that can be thought of as a form of non-violent resistance. Their journey is a slow-moving meditation meant to embody peace, rather than argue for it.
Mindfulness
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

The Simple Feeling of Being

The simple feeling of being is the fundamental basis of every momentary perception. What's happening right now is the only starting point there could ever be. The simple feeling of being is without border or boundary. The simple feeling of being is inescapable. It is not something that needs to be created or generated or sustained or practiced. It is what is here already.
Mindfulness
fromDeconstructing Yourself
1 month ago

Michael Taft Interviewed by Pranab

Host Michael Taft is interviewed by Pranab Sachidanandan about Michael's Stack Model for deconstructing sensory experience, his "adapter kit" for accessing nondual Vajrayana methods without years of preliminaries, why mantra and visualization are legitimate samadhi tools, how depth of practice maps across the sense gates, a chronic pain patient on a morphine pump who found relief through meditation, the humanities as qualia training, why the "Buddha industrial complex" leaves out people who don't fit a single tradition, and the power of building sangha outside it.
Mindfulness
Mindfulness
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

Why We're Obsessed With the Monks Walking Across America

Twelve Buddhist monks walking across the United States are drawing millions online and thousands in person, inspiring peace, gratitude, and a shared sense of human connection.
fromTiny Buddha
1 month ago

The Hidden Cost of Trusting the Universe More Than Yourself - Tiny Buddha

For years, I'd used these journals as a kind of inner courtroom, constantly building a case against myself or others. Every page held evidence of failures, proof of my profoundly advanced ability to gaslight myself. I could shrink or morph into whatever was requested for another person's comfort. Small flowered booklets documenting all the ways I couldn't get "it" right.
Mindfulness
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

Higher States of Consciousness

A few years ago, I climbed over a gate and found myself gazing down at a valley. After I'd been walking for a few minutes, looking at the fields and the sky, there was a shift in my perception. Everything around me became intensely real. The fields and the bushes and trees and the clouds seemed more vivid, more intricate and beautiful.
Mindfulness
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