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fromIndependent
9 hours ago

Man assaulted partner in row after she found him watching pornography in same bed as their sleeping son

A man pleaded guilty to assaulting his partner after she discovered him watching pornography in bed with their sleeping child.
Parenting
fromWIRED
17 hours ago

The Moms Who Sponcon Their Daughters' First Periods

Momfluencers face immense pressure to present idealized motherhood while risking their children's safety and well-being online.
Relationships
from24/7 Wall St.
17 hours ago

Single Mom Gets Relationship and Financial Advice, and the Two Are Related

Shayna needs to address her financial situation and combine finances with her partner before the baby arrives.
fromIndependent
1 day ago

'It will be life-changing': Screening for two devastating genetic disorders in newborns to begin today

The heel prick test will now be accompanied by testing for spinal muscular atrophy (SMA), a rare muscle-wasting condition that can potentially lead to a child's death by the age of two.
Medicine
Education
fromIndependent
2 days ago

With so many teachers suffering from burnout, could parents be part of the problem?

Teachers are experiencing severe burnout and considering leaving the profession due to heightened expectations.
fromIndependent
1 day ago

Ruth Medjber: I went for an ADHD diagnosis and discovered I was autistic - now, my tofu and Rich Tea fads make total sense

Getting an ADHD diagnosis at 40 provided clarity about my overwhelming feelings and the sense of losing control over my life, which many can relate to.
Mental health
#ireland
fromIndependent
4 days ago
Education

'People say "just go to Australia" but you shouldn't feel like you have to leave' - how Ireland's older teens feel about their financial futures

fromIndependent
1 week ago
Europe news

'One Saturday, we had a funeral, a wedding, a first communion and then mass. It was too much': Ireland's priests are feeling the pressure

UK politics
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 days ago

Another institutional abuse': UK survivor of Irish mother and baby home can't afford to accept compensation

Compensation for survivors of Ireland's mother and baby home scandal risks penalizing those accepting it, creating disparities between siblings.
fromIndependent
4 days ago
Education

'People say "just go to Australia" but you shouldn't feel like you have to leave' - how Ireland's older teens feel about their financial futures

fromIndependent
1 week ago
Europe news

'One Saturday, we had a funeral, a wedding, a first communion and then mass. It was too much': Ireland's priests are feeling the pressure

Right-wing politics
fromIndependent
2 days ago

Brenda Power: School survey shows that rumours of the Catholic Church's demise are grossly exaggerated

A significant majority of parents with children in denominational schools prefer to maintain their religious education.
Fundraising
fromIrish Independent
5 days ago

Wexford father organising charity match in memory of son who died at birth - 'When you lose a child, you lose all the days that go with it'

Féileacáin provides essential support for parents affected by the death of a baby around birth, helping them navigate their grief and keep memories alive.
fromIndependent
3 days ago

Caroline Foran: 'The first thing I said to my husband was, 'It's not our fault. It's not something we were doing''

"I met a friend who was published with Gill and told her about the book idea I had sitting on the shelf, and she told me to bring it to them."
Books
fromIrish Independent
4 days ago

Additional 36 infant remains discovered during Tuam Mother and Baby Home excavation

The ODAIT explained that to date, all remains recovered from the area are of infants that were buried in coffins, which have since decayed. In a small number of instances, two or three individuals were buried in the same coffin.
Roam Research
Europe news
fromIndependent
3 days ago

Maeve McTaggart: How a spark of social media anger ignited a movement that stopped a nation in its tracks

Algorithms facilitated the organization of protests and fuel blockades in response to rising petrol prices.
Women
fromwww.theguardian.com
4 days ago

You come back different': how rugby players change after motherhood

England's Women's Six Nations team will miss players due to maternity, highlighting the challenges and transformations athletes face after childbirth.
fromIndependent
3 days ago

Planes, buses and ice-creams: Mayo's great escape from Ruislip - their sliding-doors saga

Next month marks the 15th anniversary of that surreal Sunday when James Horan made his first summer statement as Mayo manager. The start of a riotous, roller-coaster decade embracing seven All-Ireland finals, one draw, six defeats and an infinity of 'what ifs'.
Liverpool FC
#parenthood
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
5 days ago

Starting a Family: If Not Now, Then When?

Cultural pressures create a double bind around timing, leading to self-blame and uncertainty in major life decisions like parenthood.
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 days ago
Parenting

Am I a happier person for having a child? It's the wrong question to ask | Rhiannon Lucy Cosslett

Parenthood does not significantly increase emotional wellbeing according to a study involving over 5,000 participants across 10 countries.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
5 days ago

Starting a Family: If Not Now, Then When?

Cultural pressures create a double bind around timing, leading to self-blame and uncertainty in major life decisions like parenthood.
Parenting
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 days ago

Am I a happier person for having a child? It's the wrong question to ask | Rhiannon Lucy Cosslett

Parenthood does not significantly increase emotional wellbeing according to a study involving over 5,000 participants across 10 countries.
fromIrish Independent
4 days ago

'My family took on a Loop Head schoolhouse that was 20 years abandoned'

The Old Cross National School, first registered as a national school in 1893, was originally a hedge school that provided informal education before the national system was established.
Renovation
fromBuzzFeed
5 days ago

I Kept My Family's Secret For Over 60 Years. Now, I'm Finally Telling The Truth.

In 1959, the woman who brought me into this world bundled me in a basket and placed me in a Hong Kong stairwell near Sai Yeung Choi Street, a bustling region of the British colony. I was 4 days old. A passerby called the police, who transported me to St. Christopher's Home, the largest non-government-run orphanage on the island.
Chicago
Beer
fromwww.nytimes.com
1 month ago

A Dublin Pub-Crawl, but Hold the Booze

Alcohol-free options are increasingly popular in Irish pubs as drinking habits shift towards moderation and health consciousness.
Arts
fromwww.npr.org
1 week ago

How a stranger's kind words stayed with a father and daughter

John's daughter Keane suffers from PANDAS, a neurological condition, and the family's journey highlights the importance of support and recognition from others.
fromIndependent
1 week ago

The Swedish social worker documenting Dublin pub culture: 'I usually have a Guinness in one hand and a camera in the other - and I talk to people'

Carina Hedlund has visited Ireland over 30 times since 2011, capturing the warmth of the people she meets in the capital's pubs with her camera.
Berlin
#parenting
Parenting
fromSlate Magazine
1 day ago

My Wife Is Struggling With a Very Basic Part of Parenting. I Can't Keep Swooping In to Save Her!

Managing emotional responses in parenting is crucial for effective problem-solving with young children.
Parenting
fromSlate Magazine
5 days ago

My Mom Seems to Think I Owe Her for Raising Me Alone. I Don't Want to Pay Her Price.

Family relationships shouldn't be transactional, and one is not obligated to provide childcare for a parent.
Parenting
fromScary Mommy
5 days ago

Do You Spend More Time With Your Kids Than Your Parents Did With You?

Parents today engage more with their children than they experienced in their own childhood.
fromSlate Magazine
6 days ago
Parenting

My Kids' Cousins Beat Them at the Easter Egg Hunt. What My Wife Did to "Even" the Playing Field Is Despicable.

Stealing Easter eggs from cousins to balance the hunt is a poor lesson for children.
fromIndependent
2 months ago
Relationships

Dear Mary: I resent how my entitled daughters-in-law make a virtue out of being stay-at-home mums when my hard work is paying for their lives

Parents provided extensive education and support, yet daughters-in-law, though highly educated, choose to be stay-at-home mothers, causing parental puzzlement.
Parenting
fromSlate Magazine
1 day ago

My Wife Is Struggling With a Very Basic Part of Parenting. I Can't Keep Swooping In to Save Her!

Managing emotional responses in parenting is crucial for effective problem-solving with young children.
Parenting
fromSlate Magazine
5 days ago

My Mom Seems to Think I Owe Her for Raising Me Alone. I Don't Want to Pay Her Price.

Family relationships shouldn't be transactional, and one is not obligated to provide childcare for a parent.
Parenting
fromScary Mommy
5 days ago

Do You Spend More Time With Your Kids Than Your Parents Did With You?

Parents today engage more with their children than they experienced in their own childhood.
Parenting
fromSlate Magazine
6 days ago

My Kids' Cousins Beat Them at the Easter Egg Hunt. What My Wife Did to "Even" the Playing Field Is Despicable.

Stealing Easter eggs from cousins to balance the hunt is a poor lesson for children.
fromIndependent
2 months ago
Relationships

Dear Mary: I resent how my entitled daughters-in-law make a virtue out of being stay-at-home mums when my hard work is paying for their lives

Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
3 days ago

The people who grew up in houses where money was tight but the table was always set properly, the shoes always clean, and guests always fed before family - they didn't learn class from wealth, they inherited it from someone who refused to let scarcity become an excuse - Silicon Canals

Class and dignity are intertwined, with true self-respect stemming from resilience in hardship rather than wealth.
#immigration
Women
fromIndependent
5 days ago

Sligo return to their fortress, Carlow keep up momentum and Galway's bid for double - GAA storylines for the weekend

Tribeswomen aim for a double in ladies football and camogie leagues as championship season begins.
Liverpool FC
fromwww.bbc.com
6 days ago

Liam Walsh gives thanks for support after baby loss

Liam Walsh expressed gratitude for support after losing his baby, aiming to help others facing similar losses.
Parenting
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago

My mother still introduces me to people as her baby and I used to find it embarrassing and now I let her because I understand that the introducing is not about me at all - it is about a woman in her 70s who still has her baby, and that is something worth letting her have - Silicon Canals

A mother's affection can evoke mixed feelings, but understanding her perspective can transform embarrassment into appreciation.
#grief
fromIndependent
1 week ago
Fundraising

Modern Morals: My brother hasn't paid me back for my mum's funeral and it's brought up old feelings about him

Writing
fromIndependent
3 weeks ago

Chef Eunice Power: 'There is a sort of secret club - parents who have lost children. You don't even know their story until you're in it'

Community support has been vital in coping with grief after the loss of her son.
fromIndependent
1 week ago
Fundraising

Modern Morals: My brother hasn't paid me back for my mum's funeral and it's brought up old feelings about him

Writing
fromIndependent
3 weeks ago

Chef Eunice Power: 'There is a sort of secret club - parents who have lost children. You don't even know their story until you're in it'

Community support has been vital in coping with grief after the loss of her son.
#divorce
Relationships
fromIndependent
5 days ago

The Divorce Diaries: 'A colleague found pictures of my husband with our kids on Tinder - he lied his way out of it'

A woman in her early 50s shares her experience of discovering her husband's infidelity on Tinder after nearly 20 years of marriage.
Relationships
fromIndependent
2 weeks ago

The Divorce Diaries: 'I realised this relationship is draining the life out of me'

A woman in her mid-40s shares her experiences of marriage and divorce, reflecting on her early relationship and family life.
Relationships
fromIndependent
5 days ago

The Divorce Diaries: 'A colleague found pictures of my husband with our kids on Tinder - he lied his way out of it'

A woman in her early 50s shares her experience of discovering her husband's infidelity on Tinder after nearly 20 years of marriage.
Relationships
fromIndependent
2 weeks ago

The Divorce Diaries: 'I realised this relationship is draining the life out of me'

A woman in her mid-40s shares her experiences of marriage and divorce, reflecting on her early relationship and family life.
Education
fromIrish Independent
6 days ago

Teachers warn of industrial action 'firestorm' over pay as AI fears and funding rows dominate conferences

Primary school teachers in Ireland may strike this autumn over unpaid wages and demands for higher pay due to inflation.
fromIndependent
2 weeks ago

Bryan Dobson: 'I have a wonderful letter written by my father to his mother-in-law when my parents got married'

Bryan Dobson stated, 'After nearly four decades at RTÉ, I found retirement to be a new chapter, filled with family time and personal projects.'
Media industry
#childcare
fromIndependent
1 week ago
Women

Katriona O'Sullivan: My children would say that I love them, but I do not think they would describe me as nurturing - and I feel bad about that

fromIndependent
6 days ago
Parenting

My parents help lots with childcare, but they let the kids play on screens too much. Can I raise this without sounding ungrateful?

fromIndependent
1 week ago
Women

Katriona O'Sullivan: My children would say that I love them, but I do not think they would describe me as nurturing - and I feel bad about that

Parenting
fromIndependent
6 days ago

My parents help lots with childcare, but they let the kids play on screens too much. Can I raise this without sounding ungrateful?

Grandparents should align with parents on childcare rules, especially regarding screen time.
fromIndependent
2 weeks ago

Endometriosis: 'It wasn't until I became a mother that I realised my period pain was the same level as labour pain'

"[After] years of holding pain, you become really tight in yourself...you hold yourself tight and you don't want to take up space."
Medicine
fromIndependent
1 week ago

Dear Mary: My mother's will left more to my brothers even though I was her main carer. I'm angry and upset and it's making me unwell

The will left 40% of the assets to both brothers and only 20% to me, despite my greater involvement in caregiving.
Relationships
Europe news
fromIndependent
2 weeks ago

'My family are worried, but I'm not leaving as I couldn't afford to be a teacher in Ireland' - Irish expats caught up in Middle East war

Many Irish expats in the Middle East choose to stay despite ongoing conflict and instability.
#motherhood
fromPsychology Today
4 days ago
Parenting

Is There an Answer to the Question, 'Do I Start a Family?'

Women are increasingly questioning the decision to start a family, recognizing its complexity and the emotional weight it carries.
fromPsychology Today
2 weeks ago
Parenting

The Ecology of Motherhood

Motherhood mirrors ecological resilience, requiring acceptance of transformation and recovery through challenges akin to natural processes like fire and regeneration.
Parenting
fromPsychology Today
4 days ago

Is There an Answer to the Question, 'Do I Start a Family?'

Women are increasingly questioning the decision to start a family, recognizing its complexity and the emotional weight it carries.
Parenting
fromPsychology Today
2 weeks ago

The Ecology of Motherhood

Motherhood mirrors ecological resilience, requiring acceptance of transformation and recovery through challenges akin to natural processes like fire and regeneration.
SF parents
fromIrish Independent
1 month ago

Katelyn Cummins: 'I hate to be taking the spotlight from Mum on Mother's Day'

A 21-year-old apprentice electrician from Kilkenny is a Dancing With The Stars finalist dedicating her Mother's Day performance to her mother, who inspired her to pursue her dreams despite having a genetic hearing disability.
fromIndependent
6 days ago

Share the load and the cost: Why more parents are having joint birthday parties for kids

Birthday parties are supposed to be fun, and they are, but they can also be hard work, not to mention very costly for parents.
Parenting
Women in technology
fromIndependent
1 month ago

Motherhood unfiltered: 'There was fear the entire time. It's probably the reason I don't think I'll have another child'

Mother's Day presents emotional complexity for many women, particularly those experiencing infertility, miscarriage, stillbirth, or unfulfilled motherhood desires.
Mental health
fromIndependent
3 weeks ago

Ask Allison: I got short-changed in my mother's will because I was unable to care for her. How do I manage my resentment?

Resentment and disappointment over a parent's will can be challenging, especially when mental health issues are involved.
fromIndependent
1 month ago

'I've lived in a flat all my married life, I raised my family there. They're all well-adjusted. We love it'

Fionnuala May has lived on Mountjoy Square in Dublin's north inner city for 43 years. That puts her out of step with most Irish people. As a nation, wedded to our cars, we've fallen out of the habit of living in towns, says the president of the Royal Institute of the Architects of Ireland (RIAI) and county architect for Fingal.
Renovation
fromIndependent
1 month ago

Edaein O'Connell: Enough of the whispering - he's not my 73-year-old sugar daddy ... he's my actual dad

When the waiter sets the candle on the table between us, I know what's coming next. He gives us the look. I've grown used to it in just a few days here in Spain. It's a look edged with apprehension; there's always a flicker of uncertainty, followed by the decision to leap headfirst into an assumption.
Madrid food
Parenting
fromFast Company
6 days ago

Fathers want to help with childcare-their jobs won't let them

Fathers face significant barriers in taking parental leave, limiting their ability to share childcare responsibilities equally with partners.
fromIndependent
3 weeks ago

The Divorce Diaries: 'I was planning on breaking up with him, and then I found out I was pregnant'

I was just finished college, I managed to get pregnant over the summer, by accident. I was still in my early twenties, it took me a few months to realise that I was pregnant.
Relationships
Cancer
fromIndependent
1 month ago

My parents moved into my one-bed apartment to help me through breast cancer treatment - and we actually had a great time

Caroline Kay's Instagram video thanking her parents for their cancer treatment support went viral with 2.6 million views, highlighting the profound impact of family caregiving during illness.
SF parents
fromIndependent
1 month ago

'What am I sending my children into?' - Parents remain cautious as Kildare school deemed safe to reopen

St. Patrick's Primary School in Celbridge reopens Monday after temporary closure due to fire safety and structural integrity concerns, following Department of Education confirmation of building safety.
Relationships
fromScary Mommy
4 weeks ago

All My Mom Friends Hate My Husband

Friends' critical observations about your husband may reflect their own biases, but could also reveal genuine relationship patterns you've normalized over time.
Women
fromIrish Independent
1 month ago

'It's marvelling how much power a host of women can conjure. It's part of why they burned us at the stakes' - meet the Irish women advocating for other women

Gender parity won't be achieved until 2148, with persistent barriers including legal recognition gaps for lesbian parents, confidence deficits in young girls, and male dominance in academic leadership positions.
Relationships
fromIndependent
4 weeks ago

Ask Allison: I'm recently married and I'm an average weight - but I keep getting asked publicly about my size and if I'm pregnant. Help!

Unsolicited comments about weight and pregnancy are inappropriate regardless of someone's body size, and people have the right to establish boundaries against such intrusive remarks.
SF parents
fromIndependent
1 month ago

'Instead of support, I was met with rejection': Mother jailed for not protecting her daughter from sexual abuse

A woman endured 13 years of rape by her father, with the case presented in court while her mother remained emotionally composed during testimony.
Real estate
fromIndependent
2 months ago

My favourite room: 'Trying to get pregnant can be scary but it doesn't need to be' - inside the family home of fertility nutritionist Amy Swan

Amy Swan overcame fertility fears, now has two children, launched a new career, and created a family home featuring Battersea Power Station artwork.
World news
fromIrish Independent
2 months ago

'It's wonderful they're alive' - Irish grandmother tells of pride after miraculous Australian sea rescue of daughter and grandchildren

A 13-year-old swam for four hours to get help after his family were swept out at sea, saving his mother and two siblings.
Public health
fromIndependent
2 months ago

'It was just so sad, going in to give birth to a baby that is no longer alive. Everything was just so painful'

Parents who lost baby Odhrán at 22 weeks could not register his death because it was classified as a miscarriage.
Parenting
fromTODAY.com
4 weeks ago

Mom Has a Baby. 10 Months Later, She Has Twins. Meet Her 'Irish Triplets'

Lindsay Campbell gave birth to three babies within 12 months, making her the mother of 'Irish triplets,' after becoming pregnant just months after delivering her second child.
fromTravel + Leisure
2 months ago

What a Long Weekend in Dublin With My Grown Son Taught Me About Letting Go

I've never had a sense of direction. In a family where everyone knows where they're going, I'm the one who gets lost. When my son Charlie was small, he would listen as I outlined the day's itinerary-grocery store, library, post office-then interrupt. "Mama," he'd say, "I have a better way." And he did. He was five, and already knew where he was going.
Travel
fromIndependent
1 month ago

Irish families living in Middle East: 'We told our eight-year-old these planes were superheroes in the sky, that we were being protected'

Irish citizens in the Middle East have been urged to "shelter in place" by Foreign Affairs Minister Helen McEntee. Ms McEntee has also said she is not aware of any Irish people being injured during military strikes, but added there could be as many as 20,000 citizens across the countries of the region.
Europe news
fromHyperallergic
1 month ago

The Irish Do It Best

The Irish government will give 2,000 artists unrestricted weekly stipends in a program officials described as a "recognition, at government level, of the important role of the arts in Irish society." After a successful three-year pilot, the Irish government made its basic income program for artists permanent. Similar pilots have been launched here in the United States, but they're supported primarily by the nonprofit sector.
Arts
Relationships
fromIndependent
1 month ago

Ask Allison: My dad and his sister fell out and she wanted her cancer kept secret from him. Now she's dead, do I tell him?

A deceased aunt's estranged siblings face decisions about honoring her privacy wishes while navigating complex family relationships after her death from brain cancer.
Education
fromIndependent
1 month ago

'I'd be lying if I said I didn't feel conflicted' - Irish parents on the true costs and savings of taking kids out of school for holidays

54% of Irish parents would remove children from school to save on holiday costs, prompting debate over acceptability and parental conflict between savings and schooling.
Women
fromIndependent
2 months ago

Brigid and me: 'Yes, she healed the sick and fed the poor - but she also made her brother's eyes explode when he crossed her'

Brigid is a multifaceted symbol of Irish womanhood encompassing healing, creativity, fire, poetry, protection, activism, environmentalism, and unbounded female identity.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago

9 things Irish-American families did every Sunday in the 1970s and 80s that cost nothing and built the kind of loyalty that modern family life struggles to replicate - Silicon Canals

Regular shared family rituals and community gatherings create lasting bonds and accountability that modern scattered schedules struggle to replicate.
Relationships
fromBusiness Insider
1 month ago

I swore I'd never move back to my hometown. When I became a mom, I changed my mind so I could be close to my parents.

A mysterious illness forced a return to hometown, transforming initial resentment into appreciation for proximity to family support and a fulfilling life with children nearby.
Parenting
fromIndependent
1 month ago

Tanya Sweeney: 'It's been 15 years since my mum died but the grief and unfairness of losing her has roared back to life'

Parents unconsciously transmit their own parents' phrases and parenting approaches to their children across generations.
fromIndependent
1 month ago

Modern Morals: Would it be wrong to sign up to a sugar daddy site? I'm a single mum and would like to be looked after financially

I'm a single mum of one and I'm really struggling with the general cost of living and the cost of childcare. A friend of mine who lives in London is an SB (sugar baby). She meets older sugar daddies online and they give her really generous gifts.
Relationships
fromIndependent
1 month ago

My child lashes out at school when they have to share - how can we help them practise sharing at home?

For many children, sharing is emotionally loaded. We like to think it is a simple skill that we can teach our children sometime in their preschool years. And it can be. But it can also be a real challenge, especially when a child has little opportunity to practise the skill.
Parenting
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