Psychology
fromPsychology Today
8 hours agoWhy Avoiding Your Emotions Makes Them Stronger
Avoiding thoughts and emotions often intensifies them, while small shifts in response can help manage emotions effectively.
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Mindfulness
fromSilicon Canals
6 days agoPsychology says people who stay calm under pressure aren't suppressing their emotions - they've built a relationship with discomfort that most people spend their whole lives avoiding - Silicon Canals
Calm individuals process emotions differently, using reappraisal instead of suppression to manage stress and discomfort.
fromSilicon Canals
5 days agoPsychology says adults who still sleep with the television on aren't just creatures of habit - many of them are filling the room with voices because at some point in their life the silence became the space where the worst thoughts lived, and a stranger talking about the weather at 2 AM is less frightening than whatever their own mind has to say when there's nothing else competing for the air - Silicon Canals
"The desire to avoid stress can also lead people to delay sleep, especially if they are preoccupied with thoughts about unfinished tasks or upcoming challenges."
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Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 hour agoPsychology says people who genuinely know their worth don't announce it or defend it, they operate with a quiet certainty that makes negotiation, justification, and proving themselves feel like a foreign language - Silicon Canals
Genuine confidence stems from self-awareness, not the need to broadcast one's worth or achievements.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
6 days agoPsychology suggests you will always push away good things if your subconscious mind doesn't believe you deserve them - and most people who do this don't recognize it as pushing, they just wonder why nothing good ever seems to stay - Silicon Canals
Self-sabotage often occurs unconsciously, pushing good things away despite a desire for improvement.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 day agoPsychology suggests people who follow through on small promises to themselves aren't just building habits - they're constructing the internal evidence that they can be trusted, which is the actual foundation of lasting self-discipline - Silicon Canals
Self-discipline is shaped by accumulated evidence of personal commitments rather than mere willpower.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
5 days agoPsychology says people who rehearse conversations in their head before making a phone call aren't anxious for no reason - at some point in their life, saying the wrong thing had real consequences, and now they edit every sentence before it leaves their mouth like a person who learned the hard way that words can't be taken back once they land on someone who keeps score - Silicon Canals
Mental rehearsals before phone calls stem from past negative experiences and can significantly impact communication behavior.
Mindfulness
fromSilicon Canals
5 days agoPsychology says people who get irrationally angry at small inconveniences - the slow driver, the loud chewer, the coworker who replies all - aren't actually angry about the inconvenience at all, they're carrying a much larger weight that they have no safe outlet for, and the small thing that breaks them is never the real thing, it's just the only thing in their day they're allowed to be visibly upset about without anyone asking a follow-up question - Silicon Canals
Small frustrations often mask deeper emotional struggles and unresolved issues.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
6 days agoPsychology says people who replay conversations in their head didn't develop that habit by accident - most of them learned early that saying the wrong thing had real consequences, and now their brain replays every exchange searching for mistakes and misfires like a security system that was installed in childhood and has never once been turned off - Silicon Canals
Replaying conversations stems from early experiences where words had significant consequences, leading to a defense mechanism of constant analysis.
fromInsideHook
2 months agoExperts Emphasize a Focus on Stress, Not Cortisol Levels
There's a difference between trying to reduce your overall stress and looking to specifically control levels of cortisol, however. As Devi Shastri reports for the Associated Press, a number of medical experts have argued that, although there are certain parts of the body that people should be concerned about, cortisol is not one of them. As with many things involving medicine and the human body, medical professionals have advocated for being able to get an expert's opinion.
Health
fromElite Traveler
2 months agoCan You Tap Your Way to Success? Apparently, You Can
One of the more unexpected tools now circulating in these high-pressure circles is tapping - a technique involving rhythmic stimulation of specific points on the body, paired with focused language, to influence mental and emotional states. Advocates claim it can restore clarity and control in minutes, whilst sceptics are sure to brand the technique as 'woo-woo'. The truth, as ever, sits somewhere between the two.
Wellness
fromAlternative Medicine Magazine
2 months ago7 Easy Tips for Grounding to Reduce Anxiety
In today's fast-paced world, stress and anxiety have become constant companions for many of us. It may feel impossible to get out from under our fears, worries, and other distressing thoughts. That's why learning how to get grounded is so important. Keep reading to discover seven quick and easy grounding techniques to reduce anxiety and help you enjoy a more peaceful, joyful life.
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Mindfulness
fromSilicon Canals
1 month agoI used to think I was bad at relaxing until I realized I was actually excellent at scanning for what might go wrong next, and those two things cannot occupy the same body at the same time. - Silicon Canals
Relaxation failure stems from continuous threat assessment in the nervous system, not lack of discipline; the body cannot simultaneously scan for danger and rest due to competing neurological states.
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
1 month agoHas Therapy Felt Useless? You May Have Been Misunderstood
Some people have excessive self-control causing emotional suppression and isolation, requiring specialized therapy approaches like Radically Open DBT instead of standard emotion-regulation focused treatments.
fromPsychology Today
1 month agoThe Deception of Depression
Depression is insidious. For people suffering from depression, joy is elusive. Depression is not only a general feeling of sadness or being down and out. It is a serious condition and needs attention. People suffering from depression cannot just get over it and move on. They need support, healing, and to discover the epicenter of their pain.
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
2 months agoWhat Happens When We Are Triggered
Someone says something to us, and we are suddenly struck with a sinking feeling in our stomach. Someone does something, and instantly we become enraged or alarmed. Someone comes at us with a certain attitude, and we go to pieces. We hear mention of a person, place, or thing that is associated with an unresolved issue or a past trauma, and we immediately feel ourselves seize up with sadness, anger, fear, or shame.
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Mental health
fromPsychology Today
1 month agoWhy Do I Worry?
Worry is future-focused mental rehearsal that distracts from deeper emotions, harms physical and emotional health, persists through perceived protection and habit, and requires compassionate awareness and boundaries to transform into growth.
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