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Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
6 hours ago

A clinical psychologist explains that the adult children who check on their aging parents most often aren't the favorites - they're usually the ones still hoping for a conversation they stopped expecting years ago - Silicon Canals

The favored child often receives love, while the other sibling seeks recognition and validation through ongoing efforts and communication.
Psychology
fromFast Company
2 hours ago

Want to live a longer, happier life? Science says work to be more successful (but not in the way you might think)

Engagement in pursuing goals, rather than achieving them, correlates with longer, more fulfilling lives.
Wellness
fromScary Mommy
20 hours ago

I'm Tired Of Being Told I Can Buy My Way Out Of Burnout

The wellness industry targets burnt-out mothers, offering products that promise relief while shifting responsibility for well-being onto them.
#kindness
Careers
fromEntrepreneur
1 day ago

How to Show Up With Kindness, Even on Your Toughest Days

Offering help and showing kindness can significantly improve relationships and workplace culture.
Careers
fromEntrepreneur
1 day ago

How to Show Up With Kindness, Even on Your Toughest Days

Offering help and showing kindness can significantly improve relationships and workplace culture.
#grief
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago
Pets

Psychology says the grief people feel when a dog dies is often heavier than they expected because the dog witnessed years of their private self that no human in their life ever saw - Silicon Canals

Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
4 days ago

Psychology says adult children don't grieve their aging parents all at once - they grieve them in a thousand tiny deaths, like the first time your mother forgets she told you the same story twice, or the afternoon you notice your father's hands shaking when he signs his name - Silicon Canals

Anticipatory grief involves mourning the gradual changes in living parents, representing incremental losses rather than just preparing for death.
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago
Psychology

Psychology suggests people who become difficult to be around with age are almost always carrying an unprocessed grief - for the life they expected and didn't get, for the recognition they believed they had earned and never received, for the version of themselves they were supposed to become - and the difficulty is what that grief sounds like when it has been stored as resentment for long enough to become the way they experience everything - Silicon Canals

Pets
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago

Psychology says the grief people feel when a dog dies is often heavier than they expected because the dog witnessed years of their private self that no human in their life ever saw - Silicon Canals

Grief for a pet can be profound and complex, often surpassing societal expectations based on relationship hierarchy.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
4 days ago

Psychology says adult children don't grieve their aging parents all at once - they grieve them in a thousand tiny deaths, like the first time your mother forgets she told you the same story twice, or the afternoon you notice your father's hands shaking when he signs his name - Silicon Canals

Anticipatory grief involves mourning the gradual changes in living parents, representing incremental losses rather than just preparing for death.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago

Psychology suggests people who become difficult to be around with age are almost always carrying an unprocessed grief - for the life they expected and didn't get, for the recognition they believed they had earned and never received, for the version of themselves they were supposed to become - and the difficulty is what that grief sounds like when it has been stored as resentment for long enough to become the way they experience everything - Silicon Canals

Unprocessed grief can manifest as bitterness and negativity, stemming from unfulfilled dreams and unmet expectations in life.
Mental health
fromArs Technica
2 days ago

Loneliness in older adults can often lead to memory impairment

Age is the primary factor affecting memory decline, with significant drops after 75 and more pronounced after 85.
#mental-health
fromIndependent
2 days ago
Education

'I stood up to my workplace bully - everyone tells you not to, but fighting back was my therapy'

Mental health
fromwww.bbc.com
6 days ago

'I didn't think I needed to be here' says woman with diabetes and depression

Managing type 1 diabetes can exacerbate mental health issues, leading to severe depression and feelings of worthlessness.
fromIndependent
2 days ago
Education

'I stood up to my workplace bully - everyone tells you not to, but fighting back was my therapy'

Mental health
fromwww.bbc.com
6 days ago

'I didn't think I needed to be here' says woman with diabetes and depression

Managing type 1 diabetes can exacerbate mental health issues, leading to severe depression and feelings of worthlessness.
US news
fromwww.npr.org
5 days ago

She invited her friends to come together to make her casket

MaddyChristine Hope Brokopp is creating her own casket with friends after receiving a terminal cancer diagnosis.
Humor
fromSilicon Canals
4 days ago

People who laugh before they finish telling a painful story aren't handling it well. They're releasing the listener from having to respond to it seriously, which is a skill they learned from people who couldn't. - Silicon Canals

Laughter during painful stories often serves as a social cue to ease discomfort rather than indicating healing.
Writing
fromwww.businessinsider.com
4 days ago

I became friends with a woman 40 years older than me. She taught me how to live.

A friendship flourished between two writers with a 40-year age difference, united by their passion for storytelling.
Parenting
fromSlate Magazine
4 days ago

I Want to Have a Baby With My Wife. She Has Some Upsetting Rules for the Process.

Nadia's choice to avoid passing on genetic disorders is reasonable and should be respected.
Health
fromwww.businessinsider.com
5 days ago

4 healthy aging habits that a longevity doctor follows most days, including strength training

Preventive habits, especially prioritizing sleep, are crucial for optimizing health and longevity.
Yoga
fromYoga Journal
1 week ago

There's a Specific Type of Grief We Don't Talk About. Yoga Can Help You Process It.

Grief over sentimental objects, known as material grief, is a common experience that can evoke strong emotions similar to losing a loved one.
Social justice
fromwww.independent.co.uk
1 week ago

Majority of carers don't receive dementia training when first looking after elderly

Over half of adult social care staff start without dementia training, raising concerns about care quality for vulnerable adults.
fromwww.bbc.com
6 days ago

Podcaster advocating for endometriosis awareness

"I thought it was normal as my mum really suffered [with period pains] too. But during my first year of university, the symptoms started happening every day, even when I was not bleeding."
Medicine
#caregiving
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
4 hours ago

Psychology says a woman has a beautiful soul if she has taken real pain and turned it into gentleness rather than armor - because the default response to being hurt is becoming harder, and the woman who went through the same things and came out softer instead has done something rare and almost impossible to teach - Silicon Canals

Pain can lead to gentleness, with some individuals choosing softness over hardness despite their hardships.
Retirement
fromSilicon Canals
6 days ago

Psychology suggests retirees who become genuinely exhausting to be around are almost never aware they're doing it - because the crankiness is grief wearing a disguise and the neediness is loneliness knocking on the only doors still open, and neither one feels like a choice from the inside - Silicon Canals

Retirement can lead to unexpected grief and identity loss, resulting in irritability and strained relationships.
Public health
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 week ago

Nicole Kidman reveals she is training to become a death doula to provide solace and care' to dying

Nicole Kidman is training to be a death doula to provide support to the dying after her mother's passing.
Careers
fromFast Company
1 day ago

You survived a layoff. Now what?

Surviving layoffs brings complex emotions like relief, guilt, frustration, and anxiety about job security and workplace relationships.
Wellness
fromEntrepreneur
1 day ago

6 New Books That Treat Wellness Like the Business Strategy It Is

Entrepreneurs need better filters for information, focusing on practical tools for health, clarity, and stamina.
US news
fromwww.npr.org
4 days ago

She no longer remembers it's her birthday. He got her a present anyway

Gift-giving for a spouse with dementia can be challenging due to their changing needs and understanding.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
9 hours ago

Not everyone who says they're fine is lying. Some people genuinely cannot locate the word for what they're feeling because nobody ever sat with them long enough to help them name it, and fine became the only vocabulary they trust - Silicon Canals

Many people struggle to articulate their emotions, often responding with 'fine' due to a condition called alexithymia, which affects emotional vocabulary.
#acceptance
Mindfulness
fromPsychology Today
6 days ago

The Fine Line Between Resignation and Acceptance

Acceptance leads to peace, while resignation fosters a victim mentality; taking action and changing perspective are key to moving forward.
fromPsychology Today
6 days ago
Mindfulness

From Despair to Strength: What One Man's Survival Teaches Us

Acceptance of emotions empowers change, while avoidance leads to disconnection and suffering.
Mindfulness
fromPsychology Today
6 days ago

The Fine Line Between Resignation and Acceptance

Acceptance leads to peace, while resignation fosters a victim mentality; taking action and changing perspective are key to moving forward.
Cancer
fromFast Company
2 weeks ago

If you want to get something done, hire a cancer patient

Cancer patients can and do work during treatment, challenging the stereotype that they are too fragile to maintain employment.
Careers
fromItsnicethat
in 3 weeks

"You don't have to be the loudest person in the room"

Making your thinking visible is essential to demonstrate your value in a workplace.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
3 days ago

The most profound late-life love stories don't belong to the people who were waiting - they belong to the people who stopped waiting, built an entire life around not waiting, and found someone anyway in the middle of a Tuesday that was supposed to be exactly like all the other Tuesdays - Silicon Canals

Love stories often begin unexpectedly when individuals stop making finding a partner the primary goal and focus on their own lives instead.
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
3 days ago

What I Wish Health Care Providers Knew About Postpartum

Intrusive thoughts and images are common among pregnant and postpartum parents, often graphic and disturbing, but they are treatable.
Parenting
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

A Classmate Has Died-How Do I Talk About It With My Child?

Supporting a child through grief requires parents to process their own emotions first for effective communication and comfort.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
2 days ago

4 Words That Stop a Gaslighter in Their Tracks

Gaslighters manipulate perceptions to create self-doubt; using the phrase 'I remember this differently' helps disengage from their tactics.
Psychology
fromwww.theguardian.com
3 days ago

The emotional security secret: how to get healthier, happier and have stronger relationships

Amir Levine's new book, Secure, offers tools to help individuals develop secure attachment styles for improved relationships and longevity.
Medicine
fromwww.businessinsider.com
2 weeks ago

I vibe coded an AI tool to help my mom fight stage 4 cancer. It helped us catch errors in her treatment and let her die with dignity.

Pratik Desai developed a tool to assist his mother in navigating Stage 4 duodenal adenocarcinoma using advanced coding and AI technology.
Fundraising
fromwww.bbc.com
3 weeks ago

Pupil art sessions 'bring joy' to hospice

Kent students collaborate with a hospice to provide art sessions for individuals with life-limiting conditions, fostering creativity and connection.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
4 days ago

Overcoming Problems of the Emotional System

Emotional rigidity leads to self-limiting behavior and misinterpretation of feelings, hindering personal growth and development.
Public health
fromwww.npr.org
3 weeks ago

'What if I die first?' Making a plan is key for family caregivers. Here's how

Family caregivers for adults with disabilities worry most about the future and lack of planning for care after their own death.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
4 days ago

The people who seem to have endless patience with difficult family members aren't necessarily more forgiving. Many of them long ago concluded that the emotional cost of asking for change was higher than the cost of absorbing the behavior, and they've been paying the cheaper price for so long they forgot there was ever a choice. - Silicon Canals

Conflict avoidance is often mistaken for patience, but it can lead to relationship breakdown and is linked to anxiety and attachment insecurity.
Books
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

Illuminating the Complexities of Caregiving

Rebecca McClanahan's caregiving memoir offers fresh perspectives on family dynamics, grief, and meaning through beautifully crafted narrative and literary integration.
Cancer
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 month ago

I have stage four cancer there will be no cure, but death isn't necessarily imminent: this is how it feels to live in the long middle

Stage four lung cancer transforms breath into a finite currency, dictating daily life and relationships amidst medical advancements that extend survival.
Mindfulness
fromPsychology Today
3 weeks ago

Grief, Loss, Abundance, Joy: Finding Refuge in Harsh Times

Acceptance of loss is essential for emotional balance and finding solace in nature can help mitigate distress.
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
3 weeks ago

Mother, Clinician, Witness: Healing Communities

Violence against children impacts the entire community, necessitating protective programs and trauma-informed care for meaningful change.
Medicine
fromBuzzFeed
1 month ago

Hospital Workers Are Revealing The Heartbreaking Regrets Patients Had On Their Deathbeds, And Wow

Healthcare workers witness profound deathbed regrets centered on lost relationships, unresolved conflicts, and time wasted on non-essential pursuits rather than loved ones.
Parenting
fromTODAY.com
1 month ago

Meredith Gaudreau Shares the 1 Thing She Does Consistently to Cope With Grief

Writing down memories and stories helps preserve details that grief-induced brain fog causes people to forget, providing comfort and connection to loved ones.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
3 weeks ago

Still Waiting to Hear "You Were Right"?

The desire for validation stems from past neglect and devaluation, creating a painful emotional wound that seeks recognition and worth.
Medicine
fromSlate Magazine
1 month ago

At 42, With Three Young Kids, I Got a Diagnosis That Would Have Me Dead in a Year. That Was Somehow Just the Beginning.

A 42-year-old man was diagnosed with cholangiocarcinoma, a rare and aggressive bile duct cancer with a 10% five-year survival rate, after initially presenting with jaundice symptoms.
LGBT
fromPadailypost
2 months ago

Suicide victim's family posts remembrance of daughter who wanted to bring people together

A 17-year-old transgender girl, Summer Devi Mehta, died by suicide after being hit by a Caltrain; her family is fundraising for the Trevor Project.
fromwww.bbc.com
2 months ago

'Hospital's neglect in my son's death has ripped our hearts out'

Peter Dervin had spent all day by his son's side in Broomfield Hospital before he decided to get dinner. He pleaded with staff at the Essex facility not to leave his eldest child, Greg, alone in his absence. "They almost laughed at me and said, 'This is what we do. We're nurses and we look after patients'," Dervin recalls. Greg had been given lorazepam, an anxiety drug flagged by clinicians as leaving him prone to becoming unsteady and agitated.
UK news
fromwww.bbc.com
2 months ago

No-one knows what to expect when you're dying - but hospices helped me

I think everybody worries when they come to the last stages, no one knows what to expect, but these people are wonderful at relaxing you and they help you an awful lot.
Public health
Cancer
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

How to Help Friends Dealing With Cancer

Show up with active listening, avoid unsolicited advice, and never dismiss cancer patients' experiences with false reassurance.
Public health
fromwww.bbc.com
2 months ago

Parents to open 'virtual hospice' after unit shuts

Families of seriously ill children in east London are establishing East London Hospice to provide home-based 'virtual hospice' care after Richard House's closure.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago

I asked 15 therapists what their clients in their 40s most commonly grieve and not one of them said a relationship or a career. Every single one described the same loss in different words. - Silicon Canals

People in their forties commonly experience grief over the gap between who they became and who they imagined becoming, a phenomenon therapists call mourning a phantom life rather than a traditional midlife crisis.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago

I asked 11 hospice nurses what dying people talk about in their final weeks and not one mentioned career achievements. Every single answer pointed to the same category of regret, and it had nothing to do with what they did or didn't accomplish. - Silicon Canals

Dying patients consistently regret unrepaired relationships and missed connections rather than professional achievements, revealing a fundamental misalignment between what modern life optimizes for and what ultimately matters.
Parenting
fromBusiness Insider
1 month ago

I was the primary caregiver for my mother until she died. The responsibilities didn't end with her death.

Caregiving extends beyond a person's lifetime through managing their memory, finances, and legacy with the same dignity and respect shown during their life.
Relationships
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

Who Will You Call When the Worst Happens?

Intentionally cultivating and maintaining friendships is essential because you cannot predict when you will urgently need someone to rely on.
fromDeconstructing Yourself
2 months ago

Stay with the Grief

Today I saw images of students leaving their school with their hands raised in the air, hours after cowering in fear and terror in barricaded classrooms. Nine dead and twenty-seven wounded in the tiny Rocky Mountain town of Tumbler Ridge. The mayor, Darryl Krakowka, said, "I have lived here for 18 years. I probably know every one of the victims." And this in Canada, which often seems to us Americans like a bastion of sanity and normalcy in comparison with our madness.
Mindfulness
fromIndependent
2 months ago

Life after cancer: You become a 'cancer patient' and that can strip you of your identity. It's a nice feeling to be back at work

Sue Higgins says her breast cancer diagnosis was a shock and after time off for treatment she was nervous about her return to work. An online programme run by Trinity College Dublin proved an invaluable support system
Public health
Medicine
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

Dying With Dignity

Dying with dignity enables individuals to control when, how, and where they die, prioritizing autonomy, informed consent, and minimizing suffering.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
1 month ago

My Dying Husband Has One Final Wish. I Don't Think I Can Give Him That.

An 80-year-old couple faces conflicting priorities: one spouse wants expensive international travel for end-of-life experiences while the other prioritizes financial reserves for anticipated long-term care costs.
fromMedscape
2 months ago

Is Assisted Death Always Peaceful? We Simply Don't Know

For decades, the gold standard for the coma-induction phase of euthanasia was thiopental. It was swift, reliable, and highly concentrated and rapidly induced a deep coma. In 2011, however, the European Union banned the export of drugs used for capital punishment, including thiopental. In the wake of the ban, manufacturers withdrew or tightly controlled supplies to avoid association with executions, making the drug increasingly difficult to obtain. "Thiopental is very difficult to get now," Horikx said.
Medicine
Relationships
fromIndependent
2 months ago

Ask Allison: My son tells me his wife screams at him and knows how to push his buttons. He feels so lost. How do I help?

Verbal abuse and retaliatory shouting in front of children damages relationships; prioritize safety, boundaries, nonviolent conflict resolution, and professional help.
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

A Unique Chance for Long-Term Care

A Utah facility will provide long-term, tiered mental health and substance use treatment for people experiencing homelessness, replacing short-term "treat and street" approaches.
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

Beyond Remission: Supporting Oncology Survivorship

Cancer survivorship transforms family relationships into a new, ongoing relational terrain requiring role renegotiation, communication adjustments, and systemic therapeutic support.
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