#developmental-psychology

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fromSilicon Canals
2 hours ago

I'm 62 and I finally understand that my father wasn't angry. He was terrified every single day that he couldn't provide enough, and the only language he had for fear was volume, and I carried resentment toward a man who was drowning while I kept score from the shore. - Silicon Canals

Children misinterpret parental emotions as character traits rather than contextual responses, creating lasting emotional patterns that can be reframed through understanding the underlying circumstances.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago

Psychologists explain that people who seem emotionally detached are often feeling everything at full volume, but learned early that showing it made them a target - Silicon Canals

People who appear emotionally flat often experienced childhood punishment for emotional expression, developing automatic suppression strategies that persist into adulthood, not indicating emotional absence but rather protective adaptation.
fromSilicon Canals
3 weeks ago

People raised in the 70s and 80s developed these 7 psychological strengths that bubble-wrapped generations never build - Silicon Canals

Remember those summer days that stretched on forever? No phones buzzing, no parents tracking your every move, just you and your mates figuring things out until the streetlights came on. I grew up in the 80s outside Manchester, and looking back, I realize how different childhood was then. We didn't have helicopter parents or participation trophies; we had scraped knees, hurt feelings, and parents who expected us to sort it out ourselves.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago

Psychology says there are 5 types of people at parties: Which one are you? - Silicon Canals

Here's something I've never told anyone at a party: I spend the first ten minutes mentally mapping out conversation escape routes because understanding social dynamics has become my weird obsession. After interviewing over 200 people about their social lives and diving deep into behavioral research, I've discovered that most of us are performing elaborate social dances without even realizing it.
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Psychology
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

Nothing Is Riskier Than Love

Love is an attachment bond rooted in early development, inherently risky because it exposes vulnerability and carries the potential for loss.
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

10 Differences Between Dangerous Minds and Criminal Minds

People often speak about dangerous minds and criminal minds as if they describe the same psychological reality. In everyday language, the terms merge, flattening distinctions that matter deeply for prevention and justice. In psychology, however, they represent different stages in the development of violence. When this difference is ignored, society responds after harm instead of understanding how it forms. A criminal mind is identified after an act violates the law, when behavior becomes visible and punishable.
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Psychology
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

Baby's First Self: Musings on the Origin of Consciousness

Consciousness emerges when experience can represent itself, creating an I/Me split that drives ongoing self-observation, recursive reflection, and inner mental dynamics.
Parenting
fromPsychology Today
4 months ago

You're Not a Bad Parent

Parents impose impossible standards, but developmental psychology shows that healthy attachment and developmental goals often allow time, imperfection, and gradual bonding.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
4 months ago

Is Ignorance Really Bliss?

Adults often avoid readily available, personally relevant information, a tendency that emerges as childhood curiosity shifts into selective information avoidance.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
5 months ago

Why Can't Some People See the Truth?

Perceptual accuracy develops over time and individuals often interpret facts to fit emotional needs, producing divergent beliefs about objective truth.
fromThe New Yorker
6 months ago

Why Are Kids So Funny?

Although she can say short sentences-"I need cake!"-her humor isn't particularly verbal. Instead, she giggles while stumbling around in grownup shoes, or blows bubbles in her water when she should be drinking it. She likes to put on a hat, pull it down over her eyes, and then blunder around, arms outstretched, like a mummy. She's also discovered the humor of exaggeration: recently, when her brother resisted getting out of his pajamas in the morning,
Humor
fromArs Technica
10 months ago

New twist on marshmallow test shows power of a promise

In a study published in the journal Royal Society Open Science, younger children were found to be slightly better at delaying gratification than older children, highlighting age-related differences in self-control.
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