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Books
fromAnOther
20 hours ago

Larry Clark and James Gilroy Revisit Their Youth

Larry Clark and James Gilroy's collaboration captures their unique friendship and shared experiences through photography and drawings, reflecting a life lived authentically.
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
1 day ago

The Anatomy of a Public Breakdown

Recent leadership social media outbursts reflect narcissistic rage and a collapse in affect regulation, marked by profanity and threats.
fromAnOther
1 day ago

Night Stage: Anatomy of a Modern Erotic Thriller

The illicit thrill of hidden desires definitely propels Night Stage, a riveting queer noir about an up-and-coming actor Matias and an aspiring politician Rafael who begin hooking up in public spaces.
Film
Graphic design
fromdesignyoutrust.com
3 days ago

This Artist Creates Dark Wood-Burned Illustrations Exploring Identity And The Human Psyche

Robb is an Italian artist known for his intricate pyrography, creating dark, psychological imagery that explores themes of identity and isolation.
Mindfulness
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

Should You 'Rage Against the Dying of the Light'?

Fighting against death can be noble but may lead to futility and emotional strain, while acceptance offers liberation and wisdom.
fromInverse
1 week ago

94 Years Later, An Iconic Horror Genre Finally Reveals Its Complex Roots

The zombie was actually a Haitian Vodou metaphor for slavery. For enslaved Africans in Caribbean colonies like Haiti, the theft of one's autonomy was akin to a walking death.
History
Film
fromIndieWire
3 days ago

'Faces of Death' Review: One of the Most Notorious Horror Movies Ever Made Gets Smartly Resurrected for the Social Media Era

Daniel Goldhaber's 'Faces of Death' critiques media consumption and violence in a post-modern slasher format, contrasting with the 'Scream' franchise's approach.
Cancer
fromIndependent
1 week ago

'Writing allows me to face what is happening now. And what is happening now is that I'm dying'

Gabriel Rosenstock faces mortality with peace, relying on poetry and philosophy for support during his battle with terminal cancer.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
4 days ago

There's a specific kind of grief that belongs to people who outgrew their hometown but never fully arrived anywhere else. They're not homesick for the place. They're homesick for the version of themselves that didn't yet know the place was too small. - Silicon Canals

Returning to one's hometown reveals a paradox of searching for a lost self rather than a changed place.
US politics
fromKotaku
1 week ago

Is A Epstein Version Of Five Nights At Freddy's Really Going Viral?

Five Nights at Epstein's is a viral game reportedly sweeping through U.S. classrooms, featuring controversial characters in a recreation of Five Nights at Freddy's.
Writing
fromSlate Magazine
1 week ago

I Lived Through the Worst Thing That Can Happen to a Parent. To Help Me Move On, I Did Something Drastic.

Grief is a persistent presence that evolves but never fully disappears.
#horror
Independent films
fromVulture
1 week ago

Sure, They Will Kill You, But Can They Get On With It Already?

They Will Kill You satirizes rich Devil worshippers while contrasting them with the mundane lives of actual Satanists, challenging stereotypes and societal fears.
Independent films
fromVulture
1 week ago

Sure, They Will Kill You, But Can They Get On With It Already?

They Will Kill You satirizes rich Devil worshippers while contrasting them with the mundane lives of actual Satanists, challenging stereotypes and societal fears.
US news
fromHuffPost
2 weeks ago

'I'm Not A Monster,' My Mom Sobbed On The Phone. I Never Thought We'd Get To This Place.

A mother and daughter navigate a complex relationship, highlighted by a book reflecting on their struggles with body image and expectations.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
5 days ago

There is a version of grief that only people in their forties understand. It's not for someone who died. It's for the life you were quietly building in your head for twenty years that you now realize was never going to happen, and the mourning has no name because the thing you lost never existed outside your own planning. - Silicon Canals

Midlife reckoning involves mourning an imagined life that never existed, rather than regret for choices made.
History
fromMedievalists.net
1 week ago

Medieval Goths and Goth Music: The Surprising Connection - Medievalists.net

The Goths influenced modern goth music, linking a historical Germanic tribe to contemporary cultural styles.
Books
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

Fiction Is Indispensable to Life's Journey

Fiction is essential for emotional connection, learning, and social cognition, allowing us to escape reality and engage deeply with narratives.
#generational-trauma
Parenting
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago

People born in the 1950s display a type of resilience modern generations mistake for coldness - but it's actually a survival adaptation built from being raised by traumatized parents who couldn't afford to process their own pain - Silicon Canals

Generational trauma from war leads to emotional suppression in families, affecting how feelings are expressed and understood across generations.
fromSilicon Canals
4 weeks ago
Mental health

I'm 66 and I finally understand why my father never talked about his feelings - it wasn't stoicism or emotional unavailability, it was that his generation was handed a definition of strength that made needing anyone feel like personal failure - Silicon Canals

Men of previous generations were taught that emotional expression and seeking help constituted weakness, leading them to silently endure hardship and pass this harmful rulebook to their sons.
Parenting
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago

People born in the 1950s display a type of resilience modern generations mistake for coldness - but it's actually a survival adaptation built from being raised by traumatized parents who couldn't afford to process their own pain - Silicon Canals

Generational trauma from war leads to emotional suppression in families, affecting how feelings are expressed and understood across generations.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
4 weeks ago

I'm 66 and I finally understand why my father never talked about his feelings - it wasn't stoicism or emotional unavailability, it was that his generation was handed a definition of strength that made needing anyone feel like personal failure - Silicon Canals

Men of previous generations were taught that emotional expression and seeking help constituted weakness, leading them to silently endure hardship and pass this harmful rulebook to their sons.
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

Talking About Death: The Depth of the Meaning of Life

Death is a certain aspect of life that is often uncomfortable to discuss, yet it shapes our relationships and understanding of existence.
Books
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 week ago

Children and teens roundup the best new picture books and novels

Bear finds hope in a tiny seed after his forest disappears, needing help from other animals to nurture it.
fromMail Online
2 weeks ago

Nursery rhymes should be confined to HISTORY lessons, woke expert says

'We absolutely should challenge stereotypes about ageing. Children do build their understanding of the world from these tiny repeated narratives. If old always equals useless or confused then that's going to shape their perception.'
Psychology
#frankenstein
Writing
fromThe Walrus
2 weeks ago

Frankenstein Taught Me the Classics Are Alive, They're Really Alive! | The Walrus

Frankenstein explores themes of unchecked ambition and responsibility, paralleling modern concerns about artificial intelligence and the creation of consciousness.
Books
fromHarvard Gazette
3 weeks ago

Our 'Frankenstein' Fixation - Harvard Gazette

Frankenstein endures as a cultural touchstone over 200 years after publication due to its nested narrative structure and the monster's eloquent humanity that challenges initial perceptions of monstrosity.
Writing
fromThe Walrus
2 weeks ago

Frankenstein Taught Me the Classics Are Alive, They're Really Alive! | The Walrus

Frankenstein explores themes of unchecked ambition and responsibility, paralleling modern concerns about artificial intelligence and the creation of consciousness.
Books
fromHarvard Gazette
3 weeks ago

Our 'Frankenstein' Fixation - Harvard Gazette

Frankenstein endures as a cultural touchstone over 200 years after publication due to its nested narrative structure and the monster's eloquent humanity that challenges initial perceptions of monstrosity.
#nostalgia
fromSilicon Canals
3 weeks ago

The worst and best thing about growing up in a small town is the same thing - nobody forgets who you were, which means you spend your 20s trying to escape the version of yourself that 600 people cemented when you were 14, and your 40s realizing that version might have been the most honest one - Silicon Canals

When you grow up in a place where everyone's known you since you were in nappies, you carry around hundreds of versions of yourself. Each person you meet has frozen you at a particular moment - the time you threw up at the school dance, your awkward phase when your voice was breaking, that summer you tried to reinvent yourself and failed spectacularly.
Digital life
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago

I grew up in the 1970s and the closest thing I had to therapy was my uncle telling me to 'walk it off' after I broke my collarbone - and that phrase became my entire emotional philosophy for the next fifty years - Silicon Canals

Some emotional wounds cannot be healed by simply ignoring them; they require acknowledgment and processing.
Books
fromwww.amny.com
1 week ago

Boroughs of the Dead launches tour exploring stories of Greenwich Village's female ghosts | amNewYork

Boroughs of the Dead hosts a ghost tour in Greenwich Village focusing on female ghosts, led by Andrea Janes.
fromIndependent
1 month ago

On death and dying: 'You could tell that Mammy's soul had left her body because she didn't look the same. It shocked me'

When Dympna Little lost her beloved mother Lily Little to ovarian cancer in December 2024, it was her online community - she posts comedy videos as @dimplestilskin on Instagram and TikTok - who provided unexpected support and understanding of the experience of grief.
Social media marketing
Public health
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 month ago

A death scholar on why we need to stop being naive about dying: I always hear, Can't you just put me into a nice meadow?'

Australia will experience peak death around 2040 as baby boomers age, doubling annual death rates and straining healthcare systems, while end-of-life control and autonomy become increasingly valued among those with resources.
Mental health
fromBuzzFeed
1 week ago

My 15-Year-Old Died By Suicide. Here's The Question I Never Asked - And Now It's Too Late.

Asking someone about suicidal thoughts does not cause suicide; it can provide crucial support and understanding.
Parenting
fromSilicon Canals
3 weeks ago

There's a specific kind of grief that hits when you realize your parents weren't strict because they didn't trust you. They were strict because the world they grew up in punished mistakes permanently, and control was the only form of love that felt safe enough to offer. - Silicon Canals

Strict parenting rooted in scarcity and survival often reflects a parent's attempt to protect their child from an unforgiving world they experienced, rather than emotional withholding or personality rigidity.
Digital life
fromBusiness Insider
1 month ago

Gen Z is trying to log their way out of doomscrolling

Gen Z is tracking media consumption to combat doomscrolling and reclaim attention spans through intentional, mindful engagement with longer-form content.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago

People born between 1945 and 1965 were raised in a culture where needing people was weakness, asking for help was failure, and independence was the highest virtue. Now they're the most isolated generation in modern history and the very traits that made them survivors are the ones keeping them alone. - Silicon Canals

Loneliness affects older generations more than commonly believed, as societal norms discourage emotional expression and connection.
Miscellaneous
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago

I'm 66 and my grandson asked me what we did before the internet and I started to answer and then stopped - because the honest answer is we were bored in ways that forced us to become interesting, and I don't know how to explain that without sounding like I'm criticizing his entire world - Silicon Canals

Pre-internet boredom forced people to develop practical skills, storytelling abilities, and genuine expertise that shaped their personalities and social value in ways constant digital entertainment prevents today.
Film
fromThe Atlantic
3 weeks ago

Cinema's Newest, Grimmest Trend

Multiple 2024 Oscar nominees feature child deaths as central plot points, reflecting contemporary anxieties about imagining futures amid present uncertainty and grief.
fromIndependent
3 weeks ago

Fewer people are now reading for pleasure - just how worried should we be?

With literacy rates declining across OECD countries, building healthy habits around books is truly essential. Allowing reading at dinner started as one of those on-the-spot parental solutions. Letting them have a copy of Bunny Vs Monkey or The Beano while they ate seemed like a more ethical solution for keeping them in their chairs for the duration of the meal than, say, duct tape.
Books
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

Why Memories of Childhood Places Can Seem So Magical

Evolutionary psychology explains why humans are attracted to environments with prospect and refuge features that enhanced ancestral survival.
NYC LGBT
fromQueerty
1 month ago

This Victorian era teen lesbian love affair ended in murder, consumption... & an opera - Queerty

Alice Mitchell murdered her lover Freda Ward in 1892 Memphis, shocking Victorian society with evidence of a passionate lesbian relationship between two middle-class women.
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
3 weeks ago

Why Our Brain Tells Us Horror Stories at Night

Nighttime cognition shifts toward rumination and catastrophic thinking due to reduced prefrontal cortex efficiency, causing minor problems to feel like existential crises that resolve with daylight.
Digital life
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago

The last generation that could be unreachable for an entire Saturday without someone assuming something was wrong didn't have better boundaries - they lived in a world where solitude was a default, not something you had to schedule, defend, and explain - Silicon Canals

Past generations weren't better at disconnecting; they lived in a world where constant availability was technically impossible, not a choice requiring justification.
Film
fromThe Washington Post
1 month ago

What parents need to know about 'Hoppers,' 'Scream 7' and more

Hoppers is a Pixar animated adventure about a college student who uses a robotic beaver to save a glade from destruction, featuring environmental activism themes with some intense scenes for younger viewers.
Philosophy
fromBig Think
1 month ago

The 3 colors: What folktales teach about how to grow wise

European folktales use red, black, and white colors to represent three modes of being that map human maturation: red as ambition and life force, black as introspection and shadow, and white as wisdom and transcendence.
Podcast
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 month ago

The occult-tinged murder that rocked a quiet Welsh village: best podcasts of the week

Recommended podcasts present sensitive true-crime, Holocaust-family memoir, arts critique, community innovation stories, and balanced technology coverage with strong sound design and accessible reporting.
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 month ago

It helps with loneliness': grief, play and the power of lifelike dolls - photo essay

It's a doll, Ineke Schmelter, 71, often says as she walks down the street with a pram and someone peers fondly under the hood, asking: How old is the baby? Then she pulls back the blanket and reveals the doll. She points out the craftsmanship the little veins, the creases in the skin and explains that it can take as many as 20 layers of paint to achieve such a lifelike finish.
Arts
Mental health
fromwww.psychologytoday.com
1 month ago

Why Gen Z Feel Less Happy Even as Society Gets Richer

Material prosperity and technological advancement have not translated into increased happiness, with younger generations reporting the lowest well-being despite unprecedented access to education, healthcare, and information.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

The Value of True Crime

Evolutionary psychology explains true crime fascination as a survival mechanism for identifying threats, yet successful predators still evade detection through deception and social bonding.
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

The Good Deaths of People Who Never Marry

People who had never married 'generally fared as well as, if not better than, married persons.' They also found that people who had no children were no different from parents in the quality of their life in their last month.
Mental health
fromenglish.elpais.com
2 months ago

Memes mature to help us understand a world in flames

Memes have become the clearest and most direct language of digital culture: condensed fragments of reality that synthesize the complexity of the present and circulate at the same speed as a society surrendered to hyperstimulation. From the Dancing Baby of the 1990s to the endless templates of X, Instagram, or TikTok, memes have evolved from simple ephemeral jokes to veritable systems for decoding the world, semiotic capsules that allow us to process the political, the social, and the intimate.
Humor
fromNature
2 months ago

A history of hocus pocus: witchcraft down the ages

A book about witches casts a spell, and arguments about whether blue-green algae should be called blue-green bacteria, in this week's pick from the Nature archive.
Science
Arts
fromdesignyoutrust.com
1 month ago

Breathtaking Grotesque Illustrations Capturing Humanity's Darkest Corners by Vergvoktre

A diverse array of contemporary visual works spans photography, illustration, street art, tattoos, sculpture, anime, and dark cinematic painting.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
2 months ago

Help! When People Find Out How I Grew Up, They Treat It Like an Idyllic Lifestyle. It's Much Darker Than That.

Growing up with unreliable utilities and remoteness included beauty alongside hard labor, isolation, limited medical access, and real hazards that make romanticizing off-grid living misleading.
Parenting
fromSlate Magazine
1 month ago

My 7-Year-Old's Latest Obsession Is Uh, Very Adult. I Definitely Didn't Teach Her That.

A 7-year-old displays adolescent appearance-focused behaviors and attention-seeking performance despite limited screen time, raising parental concern about underlying insecurity and behavioral issues.
US news
fromThe Atlantic
1 month ago

The Guthrie Case Is a Made-For-TV Horror

Media-driven true-crime fascination alters public expectations and attention, intensifying national focus on Nancy Guthrie's apparent abduction and complicating real-world justice.
Books
fromThe Atlantic
1 month ago

When Did Literature Get Less Dirty?

Philip Roth's Zuckerman Unbound functioned as a response to the controversial reception of Portnoy's Complaint, with Roth's protagonist expressing regret over writing sexually explicit material that drew accusations of anti-Semitism and misogyny.
fromKqed
5 months ago

These 5 Creatures Make a Living Off of Death: A Halloween Compilation | KQED

A passerby discovers it first - and lets out a piercing call. Within seconds, everyone in earshot rushes to the scene. It's mayhem... or so it seems. Crows are intelligent, and super chatty. They watch out for one another within tight-knit groups. As adults it's pretty rare for crows to be killed. So when one dies the others notice. Are they just scared? Or is something deeper going on.
Science
fromMedievalists.net
2 months ago

New Medieval Books: A Demon Spirit - Medievalists.net

Abū Nuwās's poetry is sheer joy: it never fails to delight, surprise, and excite. His diwan, his collected poems, encompasses the principal early Abbasid poetic genres: panegyrics ( madīḥ), renunciant poems ( zuhdiyyāt), lampoons ( hijāʾ), hunting poems ( ṭardiyyāt), wine poems ( khamriyyāt), love poems ( ghazaliyyāt) to males ( mudhakkarāt) and females ( muʾannathāt), and transgressive verse ( mujūn).
History
Arts
fromdesignyoutrust.com
1 month ago

Incredible Dark Ritual Imagery Exploring Death, Loneliness And Mythic Gates by Benjamin Malejko

A curated showcase of diverse visual works spanning illustrations, dark concept art, photography winners, humorous designs, reimagined logos, and imaginative digital and portrait art.
Film
fromwww.dw.com
2 months ago

An undying trend: How vampires hold a mirror to society

Vampires in storytelling symbolize societal fears and reflect historical social and racial violence, as shown by a 1930s-set horror about community-targeted vampires.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

Did She Die the Way They Say?

Psychological autopsy clarifies equivocal manners of death but lacks standardized protocols, challenging reliability; qualitative forensic mental-state assessments deserve standing.
#parenting
fromSilicon Canals
2 months ago
Parenting

7 phrases Boomers heard from their parents that would be considered emotional abuse today-but shaped the most resilient generation alive - Silicon Canals

fromSilicon Canals
2 months ago
Parenting

7 phrases Boomers heard from their parents that would be considered emotional abuse today-but shaped the most resilient generation alive - Silicon Canals

fromHyperallergic
2 months ago

The Nightmares Beneath the Surface of "Dreamworlds"

The timing could not be better: We have much to learn in this moment from a movement that was both explicitly antifascist and radically hopeful - and from how the not-so-antifascist Dalí broke from it. But Dreamworlds presents precious little of the historical and political context - for example, the birth of the movement out of the grotesque terrors of World War I - that would help viewers grasp the relevance of what's in front of them.
Arts
Digital life
fromwww.esquire.com
2 months ago

What Happens When People Stop Reading Books?

Smartphone-driven audiovisual media are supplanting reading, creating a post-literate era that reduces attention, depth of knowledge, and perceived intellectual engagement.
Film
fromwww.dw.com
2 months ago

An undying trend: How vampires hold a mirror to society

The vampire figure personifies societal anxieties and mirrors social and racial violence, sustaining enduring cultural relevance across myth, literature, and film.
Books
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

Curing Zombies in "The Bone Temple"

Monsters evolve to mirror the cultural anxieties and ambitions of their eras, revealing societal fears about race, empire, mental health, and scientific cure.
#adolescence
Film
fromThe Atlantic
2 months ago

Zombie Movies Should Always Be This Hopeful

28 Years Later: The Bone Temple presents a hopeful vision of postapocalyptic humanity, subverting the genre's expectation of survivors preying on one another.
fromUntapped New York
1 year ago

How Museum Artifacts in NYC Inspired a Novel About a Medieval Witch - Untapped New York

While working on a graduate school paper on the mystical powers of coral, gemologist Anna Rasche ventured deep into the archives of the Cooper Hewitt Smithsonian Design Museum's library. Coral is the most powerful material to ward off the evil eye-a belief Italians have held since ancient times. Romans often gifted newborns coral amulets to prevent sickness and bad luck.
Books
Books
fromSlate Magazine
2 months ago

Are We Just Recycling Old Stories, Ideas, and Styles?

21st-century culture is abundant and accessible but suffers an innovation deficit, leaving a "blank space" where original cultural creation should emerge.
Film
fromThe New Yorker
2 months ago

Acts of Self-Destruction

Paranoia, intimacy, and contagion can transform personal trauma into irreversible dissent enacted in both art and real life.
Books
fromEngadget
1 month ago

What to read this weekend: The unsettling new horror novel, Persona

A trans woman uncovers non-consensual pornography of herself and is drawn into escalating horrors involving identity, exploitation, internet influence, and economic precarity.
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

Why Graphic News Stories May Not Be Safe for Everyone

Recently, the internet has been awash with stories and commentary related to Jeffrey Epstein's sex crimes, many of which are saturated with graphic and disturbing details. Some social media influencers appear to even be counting on Epstein-related content to increase their reach. Not everyone should consume this kind of material, however. When engaging with the Epstein coverage in particular or with graphic news stories in general, some people may be at an increased risk for re-traumatization or vicarious trauma. These include:
Mental health
Film
fromThe Washington Post
1 month ago

What to watch with your kids: 'Wuthering Heights,' ' Buffalo Kids' and more

Intense, steamy gothic romance portrays an obsessive, toxic relationship with mature themes; an animated family sports comedy follows a goat chasing professional roarball.
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

Did My Mother See Apparitions, Angels, Flashbacks or Ghosts?

A daughter witnesses her frail, long-depressed mother's final weeks filled with hallucinated conversations, brief warmth toward customers, and the painful invisibility of familial estrangement.
Film
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 month ago

Stitch Head review animated adaptation of hit Frankenstinian tale hangs loosely together

Stitch Head is a tentative, derivative British children's animated film that shows a director's awkward pivot from gritty live-action to familiar, Pixar-like visual territory.
Mental health
fromFortune
2 months ago

The midlife crisis is only getting worse in the US | Fortune

Middle-aged Americans experience higher levels of loneliness, depression, and cognitive decline than peers in many other modern nations.
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