Dear Abby: She won't cut ties with her ex because she loves his dog
Julie is still mourning the loss of her abusive relationship with her boyfriend. The visits with the dog have only prolonged her grief. Continue to support her emotionally.
Dear Life Kit: I'm jealous of my new girlfriend's dog. Should I call it quits?
"Are you attracted to that quality in this person that makes her excited about tending to her dog? If the answer is yes, I'd say you can get through this early period."