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#responsibility
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago
Mental health

Children who were called 'the responsible one' often became adults who can't rest without guilt - not because they love productivity but because somewhere a five-year-old version of them still believes that if they stop holding everything together it will all fall apart - Silicon Canals

Freedom from responsibility can feel terrifying after a lifetime of being the responsible one.
fromThe New Yorker
10 months ago
Relationships

"Travesty," by Lillian Fishman

Prima embraces the complexities of adulthood, recognizing the inevitability of commitments and the realities of personal responsibility.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago

Children who were called 'the responsible one' often became adults who can't rest without guilt - not because they love productivity but because somewhere a five-year-old version of them still believes that if they stop holding everything together it will all fall apart - Silicon Canals

Freedom from responsibility can feel terrifying after a lifetime of being the responsible one.
#friendship
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago
Psychology

I turned 37 and looked at my phone contacts and realized I had 247 numbers but couldn't name a single person I'd call if I got genuinely bad news - and that's when I understood that losing friends in your 30s isn't about distance, it's about finally admitting proximity was doing all the work - Silicon Canals

Friendships in adulthood often diminish in depth despite an abundance of acquaintances, highlighting the importance of meaningful connections over mere proximity.
fromScary Mommy
10 months ago
Parenting

Is 'The Four Seasons' Right? Are We All Just Destined To Revert Back To Our Younger Selves?

Childhood experiences shape adulthood in profound ways, as explored in 'The Four Seasons'.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago

I turned 37 and looked at my phone contacts and realized I had 247 numbers but couldn't name a single person I'd call if I got genuinely bad news - and that's when I understood that losing friends in your 30s isn't about distance, it's about finally admitting proximity was doing all the work - Silicon Canals

Friendships in adulthood often diminish in depth despite an abundance of acquaintances, highlighting the importance of meaningful connections over mere proximity.
fromBusiness Insider
1 month ago

I'm 27, don't own a house, have no kids, and am not married. My parents had all that by my age, so I don't feel like an adult.

I'm now older than they were when they had me. I'm turning 27 and, though I don't want children, it's sometimes difficult not to measure my life against theirs. They got married at 21. When I was 21, I was finishing my bachelor's degree in the middle of a pandemic. At 25, rather than having a child, I was moving in with my girlfriend, and we became cat parents.
Mental health
Science
fromenglish.elpais.com
2 months ago

Teenagers up to 30: It's false that the brain suddenly becomes an adult at 25

Frontal-lobe development continues into the 30s, so the claim that brain maturation finishes at 25 is an oversimplified misconception.
Parenting
fromBusiness Insider
4 months ago

My 5 kids are all adults. It's tough to stay relevant in their lives.

Parenting evolves from hands-on direction to distant observation as children become adults, leaving a parent watching from the balcony while yearning for relevance.
Women
fromBuzzFeed
6 months ago

17 Women Open Up About The Aspects Of "Girlhood" They Miss, And It's A Nostalgia Overload

Girlhood memories center on carefree intimacy, playful rituals, easy friendships, and candid emotional expression that adults often struggle to replicate.
fromwww.theguardian.com
8 months ago

Turning 35, I don't have answers but I have learned one thing: we're all just winging it | Alexander Hurst

Most adults are simply winging it most of the time, navigating through a process of becoming that never quite reaches become.
Relationships
Television
fromwww.forbes.com
8 months ago

'Friends' Vs. 'Adults': What These Shows Can Teach Us About Marketing To Gen Z

Adulthood has shifted from aspirational fantasies to stark realities marked by challenges and disconnections.
Film
fromKqed
8 months ago

'Sorry, Baby' Conveys the Everyday Ordinariness of Terrible Things

Sorry, Baby explores the quiet and insidious nature of personal crises and the challenges of emerging adulthood.
Women
fromBusiness Insider
9 months ago

I had my first chat with a financial advisor over hushed tones at work. Now, I'm helping other women find the confidence I lacked.

Navigating adulthood can be challenging, especially when faced with new responsibilities like financial planning.
Music
fromPitchfork
9 months ago

Pulp: More

Jarvis Cocker's new album reminds us that life is a continual coming-of-age journey full of revelations and humor.
fromBusiness Insider
9 months ago

Miley Cyrus says getting older changed how she sees her parents

As I've gotten older, I'm respecting my parents as individuals instead of as parents - because my mom's really loved my dad for her whole life.
Parenting
Mindfulness
fromPsychology Today
9 months ago

When Chaos Reigns, "Act Accordingly" Might Be the Best Plan

Theories often fail to address real-life challenges and chaos.
Adulthood requires acceptance of reality over ideal concepts.
fromThe Atlantic
10 months ago

The Long Goodbye to College

Even the slightest pageantry is enchanting at graduations, turning seemingly simple events into memorable life moments that mark significant transitions.
Retirement
fromScary Mommy
10 months ago

What Happens To Curfew & Other Rules When Kids Turn 18?

"When you say grown, what do you mean? Like you and dad. Grown."
Parenting
NYC parents
fromDecider
10 months ago

What time is 'Adults' on FX? 'Adults' premiere date, episode guide, cast, Hulu streaming info

FX's 'Adults' is a new ensemble comedy about Gen-Z friends navigating the challenges of adulthood in New York City.
fromABC7 Los Angeles
10 months ago

FX releases first trailer for new comedy, 'Adults'

According to the official synopsis, 'Over the eight-episode season, the housemates tackle capital-R Responsibility to varying degrees of success.'
NYC parents
Parenting
fromBusiness Insider
11 months ago

'25 is the new 21': Gen Z is taking the slow road to adulthood

Gen Z is taking a slower approach to adulthood, preferring to wait before achieving traditional milestones.
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