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19 hours ago
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Why some people change only when enough others do

Understanding individual thresholds for change and social networks can help overcome resistance to adopting new behaviors like climate change solutions.
#self-worth
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
18 hours ago

Psychology says if you want your 70s to be the best years of your life you have to stop doing something most people don't quit until it's too late - and the quitting isn't dramatic, it's just the daily decision to stop measuring yourself by a standard that was always someone else's and never actually yours - Silicon Canals

Measuring worth by external standards leads to dissatisfaction; true value comes from personal fulfillment, not societal expectations.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
12 hours ago

Psychology says people who feel successful at 50 aren't the ones who achieved the most - they're the ones who stopped measuring their worth against an imaginary scoreboard they inherited at 23 - Silicon Canals

Measuring worth against inherited societal scorecards leads to disappointment and a distorted sense of success.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
18 hours ago

Psychology says if you want your 70s to be the best years of your life you have to stop doing something most people don't quit until it's too late - and the quitting isn't dramatic, it's just the daily decision to stop measuring yourself by a standard that was always someone else's and never actually yours - Silicon Canals

Measuring worth by external standards leads to dissatisfaction; true value comes from personal fulfillment, not societal expectations.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
12 hours ago

Psychology says people who feel successful at 50 aren't the ones who achieved the most - they're the ones who stopped measuring their worth against an imaginary scoreboard they inherited at 23 - Silicon Canals

Measuring worth against inherited societal scorecards leads to disappointment and a distorted sense of success.
#happiness
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
4 hours ago

I'm 73 and my husband asked me what makes me happy and I gave him the answer I thought he wanted to hear - our kids, our grandkids, our home - but the real answer is I genuinely don't know anymore because I've spent forty years editing my joy to fit other people's expectations - Silicon Canals

Editing joy to fit others' expectations can lead to losing sight of what truly makes one happy.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 days ago

Research suggests the likeability drop that many people experience after 60 correlates almost perfectly with an increase in self-reported life satisfaction - which means the trade most people make without realizing it is that they exchange social approval for internal alignment, and the people who notice you've changed are almost always the ones who preferred the version of you that prioritized their comfort over your truth - Silicon Canals

Life satisfaction increases after 60 as people care less about others' approval and embrace personal freedom.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
4 hours ago

I'm 73 and my husband asked me what makes me happy and I gave him the answer I thought he wanted to hear - our kids, our grandkids, our home - but the real answer is I genuinely don't know anymore because I've spent forty years editing my joy to fit other people's expectations - Silicon Canals

Editing joy to fit others' expectations can lead to losing sight of what truly makes one happy.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 days ago

Research suggests the likeability drop that many people experience after 60 correlates almost perfectly with an increase in self-reported life satisfaction - which means the trade most people make without realizing it is that they exchange social approval for internal alignment, and the people who notice you've changed are almost always the ones who preferred the version of you that prioritized their comfort over your truth - Silicon Canals

Life satisfaction increases after 60 as people care less about others' approval and embrace personal freedom.
#parenting
Parenting
fromSilicon Canals
10 hours ago

Psychology says parents who can't stop helping their adult children aren't being loving - they're unconsciously protecting themselves from the terror of becoming unnecessary - Silicon Canals

Parental overinvolvement may stem from a fear of irrelevance rather than solely from love.
Parenting
fromSilicon Canals
13 hours ago

I'm 66 and I recently told my son that I was proud of him for the first time in his adult life, and the look on his face told me everything about the cost of assuming that providing for someone communicates the same thing as telling them they matter - Silicon Canals

Verbal expressions of pride are crucial for emotional connection between parents and children.
fromIndependent
2 days ago
Parenting

My 10-year-old son watched porn at a friend's house - but I have no idea how to talk to him about it

fromSilicon Canals
2 days ago
Parenting

Psychology says the 1960s and 70s accidentally produced one of the most emotionally durable generations in modern history - not through better parenting but through benign neglect that forced children to develop internal regulation instead of waiting for adult intervention - Silicon Canals

Parenting
fromSlate Magazine
1 day ago

My Daughter Has Been Framed for Something She Didn't Do. My Husband Thinks She Should Just Accept the Punishment.

Middle schoolers should be involved in decisions about their conflicts and how to address misunderstandings with peers and school authorities.
Parenting
fromSilicon Canals
10 hours ago

Psychology says parents who can't stop helping their adult children aren't being loving - they're unconsciously protecting themselves from the terror of becoming unnecessary - Silicon Canals

Parental overinvolvement may stem from a fear of irrelevance rather than solely from love.
Parenting
fromSilicon Canals
13 hours ago

I'm 66 and I recently told my son that I was proud of him for the first time in his adult life, and the look on his face told me everything about the cost of assuming that providing for someone communicates the same thing as telling them they matter - Silicon Canals

Verbal expressions of pride are crucial for emotional connection between parents and children.
Parenting
fromIndependent
2 days ago

My 10-year-old son watched porn at a friend's house - but I have no idea how to talk to him about it

Reactions to a child's discovery of pornography can influence their willingness to communicate openly.
Parenting
fromSilicon Canals
2 days ago

Psychology says the 1960s and 70s accidentally produced one of the most emotionally durable generations in modern history - not through better parenting but through benign neglect that forced children to develop internal regulation instead of waiting for adult intervention - Silicon Canals

Children in the 70s thrived on unstructured play and minimal parental intervention, fostering independence and problem-solving skills.
Parenting
fromSlate Magazine
1 day ago

My Daughter Has Been Framed for Something She Didn't Do. My Husband Thinks She Should Just Accept the Punishment.

Middle schoolers should be involved in decisions about their conflicts and how to address misunderstandings with peers and school authorities.
Parenting
fromSlate Magazine
4 days ago

My Husband Is Forbidding Our Son From a Teen Rite of Passage. His Reasoning Is Very Strange.

Parents should allow their children to explore personal expression through hairstyles, especially during teenage years, while navigating cultural considerations.
Mindfulness
fromSilicon Canals
5 hours ago

I'm 37 and I've already learned that your body keeps score, your gut rarely lies, and your childhood follows you into every relationship - while pretending I had it all figured out at 25 - Silicon Canals

Emotional struggles and stress manifest physically, impacting health and well-being.
OMG science
fromNature
3 days ago

Daily briefing: Are boys really in crisis? What the science says

Concerns about boys should be viewed in the broader context of all young people.
fromFast Company
18 hours ago

What to do after a life-defining mistake

The only thing worse than making a mistake is keeping it bottled up inside. Learning from the mistakes of others could help you embark on the healing journey of sharing and working through a mistake of your own, with someone you trust.
Books
Writing
fromFast Company
1 day ago

The unexpected childhood activity that predicted my career path

A childhood fascination with weddings evolved into a career in wedding planning, driven by a desire to streamline chaotic logistics.
#aging
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago
Mental health

Psychology explains the reason some people grow sweeter with age while others grow bitter has nothing to do with how hard their life was - it's about whether they learned to grieve their losses or hoard them - Silicon Canals

Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago

Psychology says the reason aging people feel like they don't matter isn't about what they've lost - it's that society defines mattering as productivity and visibility, and the moment you step outside those narrow roles, your value becomes invisible even to people who love you - Silicon Canals

Retirement and aging can lead to feelings of invisibility and worthlessness due to society's narrow definitions of productivity.
Parenting
fromSilicon Canals
7 hours ago

The most painful thing about watching a parent age isn't the physical decline. It's the moment you catch them deferring to you on a decision they would have made without hesitation ten years ago, and you both feel the transfer of authority that neither of you agreed to. - Silicon Canals

The real challenge of aging parents lies in the subtle shifts of authority and uncertainty in their decision-making.
Mindfulness
fromSilicon Canals
2 days ago

I'm 37 and I've already learned the hard way that the older you get, the less drama you can tolerate, the more solitude makes sense, and the clearer your standards become while outgrowing the life I once thought I wanted - Silicon Canals

Aging brings a shift in priorities, leading to a decreased tolerance for drama and a greater appreciation for peace and authenticity.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
6 days ago

Psychology says people who become harder to be around as they get older aren't becoming more miserable - they're becoming less willing to absorb other people's discomfort at the expense of their own - Silicon Canals

Older adults prioritize emotionally meaningful relationships, leading to smaller social circles and active pruning of less fulfilling connections.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago

Psychology explains the reason some people grow sweeter with age while others grow bitter has nothing to do with how hard their life was - it's about whether they learned to grieve their losses or hoard them - Silicon Canals

Aging can lead to either bitterness or sweetness, depending on how one processes life's hurts and losses.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago

Psychology says the reason aging people feel like they don't matter isn't about what they've lost - it's that society defines mattering as productivity and visibility, and the moment you step outside those narrow roles, your value becomes invisible even to people who love you - Silicon Canals

Retirement and aging can lead to feelings of invisibility and worthlessness due to society's narrow definitions of productivity.
Parenting
fromSilicon Canals
7 hours ago

The most painful thing about watching a parent age isn't the physical decline. It's the moment you catch them deferring to you on a decision they would have made without hesitation ten years ago, and you both feel the transfer of authority that neither of you agreed to. - Silicon Canals

The real challenge of aging parents lies in the subtle shifts of authority and uncertainty in their decision-making.
Mindfulness
fromSilicon Canals
2 days ago

I'm 37 and I've already learned the hard way that the older you get, the less drama you can tolerate, the more solitude makes sense, and the clearer your standards become while outgrowing the life I once thought I wanted - Silicon Canals

Aging brings a shift in priorities, leading to a decreased tolerance for drama and a greater appreciation for peace and authenticity.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
6 days ago

Psychology says people who become harder to be around as they get older aren't becoming more miserable - they're becoming less willing to absorb other people's discomfort at the expense of their own - Silicon Canals

Older adults prioritize emotionally meaningful relationships, leading to smaller social circles and active pruning of less fulfilling connections.
Education
fromNature
3 days ago

Are boys really in crisis? What the science says in the age of the manosphere

Boys aged 12-16 express frustrations about masculinity, emotional support, and the lack of real-world spaces post-COVID-19.
Law
fromTechCrunch
2 days ago

Meta was finally held accountable for harming teens. Now what? | TechCrunch

Meta has been held liable for endangering child safety and designing addictive apps, leading to significant legal consequences.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 hour ago

9 subtle behaviors that reveal someone grew up in a household where money was discussed in whispers, and why those behaviors persist long after financial security has arrived - Silicon Canals

Financial behaviors are shaped by early experiences and trauma, not just knowledge or information gaps about money.
Parenting
fromScary Mommy
17 hours ago

Is Your Kid's Friend A Good Influence? Experts Share 6 Green Flags

Positive friendships build confidence and happiness in children, providing essential support throughout their development.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
12 hours ago

Psychology says people who crave both complete freedom and deep companionship aren't confused - they're experiencing the central tension of the human condition, and the people who resolve it aren't the ones who choose a side but the ones who stop treating it like a choice - Silicon Canals

The autonomy-connection paradox highlights the human need for both independence and intimacy in relationships.
Mindfulness
fromBuzzFeed
12 hours ago

21 Less Obvious Young Person Habits That Can Silently Harm People Later In Life

Constant availability to others is psychologically damaging and undermines personal boundaries.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
21 hours ago

I'm 66 and I finally learned the hardest lesson isn't that people will disappoint you - it's that you'll disappoint yourself by pretending you don't need what you need until you forget what that even was - Silicon Canals

Neglecting emotional needs leads to a profound sense of loss and disconnection from oneself and others.
Mindfulness
fromSilicon Canals
18 hours ago

Psychology says the most important life lesson isn't learning to make better decisions - it's learning to live peacefully with the ones you can't undo - Silicon Canals

Irreversible choices shape our lives and learning to coexist with them is crucial for mental well-being.
Philosophy
fromApaonline
4 days ago

Let Kids Be Kids? The Ethics of Maximizing Children's Talents

Children are increasingly pushed to maximize their athletic talent from a very young age, often at the expense of social and academic development.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
3 hours ago

People who were labeled 'too sensitive' often became adults who read rooms before anyone speaks, and the difference between those two things is about 20 years of misunderstanding - Silicon Canals

Sensitivity can evolve from a perceived weakness into a valuable skill for understanding emotional dynamics in various situations.
Mindfulness
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago

Psychology suggests people who stay calm during conflict aren't less emotional - they learned early that the person who controls the temperature of the room controls the outcome, and they stopped reacting and started choosing - Silicon Canals

Controlling emotional responses during conflict can significantly influence the outcome of the situation.
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
2 days ago

Teen Anxiety and the Dangers of Doomscrolling

Stress and anxiety hinder teens' future planning, while social media can provide temporary relief but may also lead to doomscrolling and distraction.
#identity
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
6 days ago

Psychology says the reason most people never truly change isn't laziness - it's that they've built an identity around their flaws that they don't know who they'd be without them - Silicon Canals

People struggle to change not due to laziness, but because their flaws are integrated into their identity, making change feel like a threat to the self.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
6 days ago

Psychology says the reason most people never truly change isn't laziness - it's that they've built an identity around their flaws that they don't know who they'd be without them - Silicon Canals

People struggle to change not due to laziness, but because their flaws are integrated into their identity, making change feel like a threat to the self.
#friendship
Relationships
fromPsychology Today
23 hours ago

How to Cultivate Adult Friendships

Negative beliefs about rejection hinder relationship building, while consistent interactions and practicing social skills foster connections and reduce anxiety.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago

I'm 37 and I watched my friendships disappear one by one - no fights, no drama - and then I realized it was me who changed - Silicon Canals

Friendships can fade as individuals change and evolve, often without conflict or clear reasons for the loss.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
3 days ago

The friends you made between 19 and 24 know a version of you that your current partner, your therapist, and your coworkers will never meet. And the grief isn't about losing those friends. It's about losing access to the person you were with them. - Silicon Canals

Friendships formed between ages 19 and 24 serve as an identity archive, reflecting a version of oneself that no longer exists.
Relationships
fromPsychology Today
23 hours ago

How to Cultivate Adult Friendships

Negative beliefs about rejection hinder relationship building, while consistent interactions and practicing social skills foster connections and reduce anxiety.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago

I'm 37 and I watched my friendships disappear one by one - no fights, no drama - and then I realized it was me who changed - Silicon Canals

Friendships can fade as individuals change and evolve, often without conflict or clear reasons for the loss.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
3 days ago

The friends you made between 19 and 24 know a version of you that your current partner, your therapist, and your coworkers will never meet. And the grief isn't about losing those friends. It's about losing access to the person you were with them. - Silicon Canals

Friendships formed between ages 19 and 24 serve as an identity archive, reflecting a version of oneself that no longer exists.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
21 hours ago

Psychology suggests people who downplay their birthday don't want less - they want the specific thing most birthdays have never delivered, which is the felt sense of being genuinely celebrated rather than obligatorily acknowledged, and they stopped asking for it because stopping felt better than hoping and being let down again - Silicon Canals

Some people avoid celebrating birthdays due to feelings of disconnection from superficial acknowledgments.
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
2 days ago

When Screens Spike Stress: Cortisol's Tight Grip on Teens

Traumatic social media content can significantly impact adolescents due to their developing brains and hormonal changes affecting emotional regulation.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago

The most liberating thing you can learn after 40 is that 'because I don't want to' is a complete and legitimate reason - not an opening argument - Silicon Canals

Saying 'no' without justification can lead to a more fulfilling life.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
2 days ago

Why We Don't Change-Even When We Know What's Wrong

Insight alone is insufficient for change; real experiences are necessary to challenge ingrained beliefs and expectations.
Mindfulness
fromSilicon Canals
2 days ago

I'm 37 and I realized I wasn't actually a good person the day my wife said "you're kind to strangers and cruel to the people closest to you" - and the worst part wasn't the accusation, it was that I couldn't argue because I'd been using up all my patience on people who didn't matter and coming home empty - Silicon Canals

Kindness should be abundant at home, not rationed for public interactions, to foster authentic connections with loved ones.
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
3 days ago

The Day I Realized My Son Wasn't Defiant, He Was Ashamed

Understanding a child's emotional state is crucial; shame can manifest as feelings of worthlessness, impacting behavior and communication.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
3 days ago

Behavioral scientists found that the people who become less likeable with age but more respected are operating on a principle most people understand intellectually but can't execute emotionally - that respect and likeability are often inversely correlated after 60, because likeability requires you to shrink and respect requires you to hold your shape, and most people spent their first six decades shrinking and their last two deciding that holding their shape matters more than fitting into someone else's fra

Standing up for oneself can lead to decreased likability, but it is a necessary part of emotional maturity and self-respect.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago

Psychology says the most self-centered people in any room aren't the ones who talk loudest - they're the ones who respond to every story you tell with a story about themselves, so automatically and so consistently that they've long since stopped noticing they do it - Silicon Canals

Conversational narcissism involves shifting focus in conversations back to oneself, often without awareness, hindering genuine connection.
Mindfulness
fromSilicon Canals
3 days ago

The difference between people who actually change their lives and people who just talk about it almost always comes down to what they do in the first 90 seconds after waking up - Silicon Canals

The first 90 seconds after waking significantly influence the rest of the day, often leading to reactive behavior if not managed properly.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
4 days ago

Children who were called 'the responsible one' often became adults who can't rest without guilt - not because they love productivity but because somewhere a five-year-old version of them still believes that if they stop holding everything together it will all fall apart - Silicon Canals

Freedom from responsibility can feel terrifying after a lifetime of being the responsible one.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
1 day ago

People Don't Just Update Beliefs, They Test Them

Understanding psychological change requires recognizing the role of control and mastery in actively pursuing change despite familiar limitations.
Psychology
fromFast Company
2 days ago

Why your successful life doesn't leave you fulfilled

Success is subjective; many feel unfulfilled despite achievements due to societal comparisons and not pursuing personal desires.
#midlife-crisis
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
6 days ago

Psychology says the midlife crisis isn't about wanting something new - it's the moment you finally hear your own voice after decades of executing someone else's blueprint and mistake the unfamiliarity for chaos - Silicon Canals

Midlife crisis often reflects an identity confrontation rather than mere loss, revealing buried personal preferences and voices.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
6 days ago

Psychology says the adults who feel most lost in midlife aren't the ones who failed - they're the ones who succeeded at a version of life they chose before they knew themselves well enough to choose - Silicon Canals

Midlife suffering can arise from achieving external success while feeling internally lost due to a disconnect between one's early dreams and current reality.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
6 days ago

Psychology says the midlife crisis isn't about wanting something new - it's the moment you finally hear your own voice after decades of executing someone else's blueprint and mistake the unfamiliarity for chaos - Silicon Canals

Midlife crisis often reflects an identity confrontation rather than mere loss, revealing buried personal preferences and voices.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
6 days ago

Psychology says the adults who feel most lost in midlife aren't the ones who failed - they're the ones who succeeded at a version of life they chose before they knew themselves well enough to choose - Silicon Canals

Midlife suffering can arise from achieving external success while feeling internally lost due to a disconnect between one's early dreams and current reality.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 days ago

People who grew up calculating whether they could afford both the drink and the entree before anyone else sat down don't stop doing that math when they earn six figures. The arithmetic isn't financial anymore. It's a loyalty ritual to a younger version of themselves who promised never to be caught without an exit. - Silicon Canals

Child poverty in the U.S. leads to adult poverty more than in Denmark, Germany, the UK, or Australia, with lasting effects beyond financial circumstances.
Mindfulness
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

Advice for Kids: "Don't Do Your Best, Just Do What You Can"

'Do what you can' reduces pressure and promotes self-care, while 'Do your best' can lead to self-criticism.
Relationships
fromHuffPost
3 days ago

How To Tell If Your Standards Are, In Fact, Too High

Having standards in dating is important, but excessively high standards can hinder meeting compatible partners.
Relationships
fromwww.theguardian.com
5 days ago

I'm 18 and don't feel physically attracted to anyone. How can I ever have children? | Ask Annalisa Barbieri

Struggling with attraction and relationships is common, and self-discovery is a natural part of the university experience.
Mental health
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 week ago

Study links children's social media use with anxiety and depression in teenage years

Excessive social media use in children is linked to increased depression and anxiety, particularly in girls, due to sleep deprivation.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 days ago

Psychology says the people who actually escape loneliness don't do it by finding more people - they do it by finally dropping the version of themselves that made real connection impossible in the first place - Silicon Canals

Loneliness stems from a lack of genuine connection, not merely from being alone or having many acquaintances.
Relationships
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

Pressure to Send: Teens, Sexting, and Relationhips

Pressure to share nude images often comes from dating partners, impacting teens' mental health and highlighting the need for teaching consent and communication.
Parenting
fromSlate Magazine
2 weeks ago

My Son and His Friends Made a Gross Bet. I'm Livid.

Parents should address immature sexual attitudes in 13-year-olds through open dialogue rather than isolating them from peers or involving other families.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
2 days ago

Misreading Success: Life's Most Underrated Virtue

Humility is an underrated virtue that can significantly influence success, contrasting with overconfidence seen in figures like Jesse Livermore.
fromUnHerd
1 month ago

The teenage-boy proving ground

The teenaged boy was the victim of what local news sources called a "social-media challenge" or "TikTok stunt" gone awry. He'd been with a group of friends who were filming the exploit, and who fled the scene without calling for help for fear of getting arrested - though, naturally, they also immediately posted video of the accident to social media.
New York City
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 days ago

There's a particular kind of strength that belongs to people who rebuilt their entire personality after 40 - not because something broke them, but because they finally had enough distance from their childhood to see what was never theirs to carry - Silicon Canals

Personality changes after forty often reflect a deeper honesty about one's true self rather than a crisis or breakdown.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
3 days ago

Nobody prepares you for the hardest lesson of your 50s - that some of the people you sacrificed for genuinely don't remember what you gave up, and it's not cruelty, it's just the way memory works when you were never the main character in their story - Silicon Canals

Sacrifices made for others often go unremembered, as people focus on their own narratives and experiences.
Psychology
fromFast Company
3 days ago

Stop trying to 'educate' people into changing. Science proves it doesn't work

False assumptions hinder change; simply providing information does not guarantee behavior change.
Relationships
fromBuzzFeed
1 week ago

People Are Sharing "Young Person" Habits They Adopted That They Now Swear By

Older generations are adopting habits from younger generations to stay relevant and connected.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
3 days ago

Psychology says people who ask 'how can I learn to be more empathetic' already possess the one trait that matters most - self-awareness - while people who claim they're already empathetic rarely are - Silicon Canals

Self-awareness is essential for developing genuine empathy and emotional intelligence.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
4 days ago

5 decisions people in their 30s quietly make that look like giving up to everyone watching but are actually the first honest choices they've made since their twenties - Silicon Canals

Many decisions in your thirties are corrections based on self-knowledge rather than failures or retreats.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
4 days ago

Psychology says the reason some people become wiser as they age while others become more rigid has nothing to do with intelligence. It depends on whether they ever learned to sit with discomfort - Silicon Canals

Distress tolerance influences how individuals respond to discomfort, shaping their openness and adaptability in life.
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

The Adolescent Brain and Delinquency

Adolescence is second only to early childhood in the rapidity and sheer volume of changes occurring in brain development. Three different brain systems (and their interconnections) are at play: reward-driven behavior, harm avoidance, and regulatory behavior. At the same time, teens are experiencing powerful changes to their physical and sexual selves, accompanied by the hormonal cascade of puberty. During this period, there is an increase in brain receptors for dopamine, a neurotransmitter that has a strong effect on the experience of pleasure.
Science
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
4 days ago

Psychology says the worst part of people-pleasing isn't the exhaustion - it's realizing that no one actually knows you because you never gave them the real version - Silicon Canals

People-pleasing leads to exhaustion and prevents genuine intimacy, as it creates a façade that others connect with instead of the true self.
Music
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

Seeing Ourselves Through Younger Eyes

Feeling younger than one’s chronological age, often triggered by music and dancing, associates with better mental health and predicts improved future physical health.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
6 days ago

I'm 37 and I just realized that every major decision I've made in my adult life was designed to avoid disappointing people who stopped thinking about me the moment I left the room - and that's a lesson most people learn too late to rebuild - Silicon Canals

People often overestimate how much others notice and think about them, leading to unnecessary anxiety about others' judgments.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
5 days ago

The people who seem unbothered by what others think of them aren't indifferent. They just moved the audience from external to internal sometime in their thirties and never told anyone about the shift. - Silicon Canals

Calmness is often misinterpreted as indifference; true calm comes from internalizing self-judgment rather than dismissing external opinions.
Parenting
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

Talking to Your Child About Sex, Puberty, and Consent

Sex education should begin in toddlerhood through ongoing conversations using accurate terminology, emphasizing body safety and autonomy rather than shame.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
6 days ago

Psychology says people who are intellectually curious but socially selective aren't antisocial - they've simply reached a level of self-awareness where they'd rather be alone than accommodate conversations that require them to shrink their thinking - Silicon Canals

Selective social withdrawal can lead to positive outcomes like creativity, contrasting with the negative perceptions often associated with being antisocial.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
6 days ago

Holding Inspired Authority

Effective authority fosters growth through listening, modeling behaviors, and celebrating achievements, avoiding both abuse and abdication.
#adolescent-development
Psychology
fromCornell Chronicle
1 week ago

A stable sense of purpose helps teens navigate life's challenges | Cornell Chronicle

Teenagers' sense of purpose fluctuates daily, and steady experiences of purpose may provide the most benefits during adolescence.
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

Why Do Some Girls Form Deadly Pacts?

Isabelle Valdez, 15, and Lois Lippert, 14, were accused of plotting to murder a classmate, with Valdez admitting to planning to use a knife found in her backpack. In an apology, she expressed feelings of being 'disgusting, cruel, and useless,' indicating deep-seated issues.
Psychology
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

The Challenging Transition from Adolescence to Adulthood

Young adults aged 18 to 25 face rising mental health challenges driven by social media, climate anxiety, changing help-seeking views, and limited access to care.
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

Why Confidence About Puberty Matters for Teens

Middle schoolers with higher confidence in managing puberty experience fewer depression and anxiety symptoms, regardless of age, gender, or pubertal timing.
#adolescence
fromFast Company
2 months ago

Research shows this habit parents hate is good for teenagers

For the study, researchers at the University of Oregon and the State University of New York Upstate Medical University analyzed data from more than a thousand 16 to 24-year-olds in which participants reported their sleep/waking hours, including weekend catch-up sleep. While one might imagine that teens who spring out of bed early each morning - regardless of the day of the week- are more mentally sound, the opposite may be true. Interestingly, the study found that teens who slept in on weekends were significantly less likely to report symptoms of depression. The group had a 41% lower risk of depression when compared with the group who kept a more regimented sleep schedule on weekends.
Mental health
Parenting
fromSlate Magazine
2 months ago

My Stunning 15-Year-Old Daughter Is Dressing Ridiculously. She Says It's Her "Identity."

Parents have limited influence over teenagers' fashion choices, as clothing often functions as adolescent self-expression and independence.
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