"I'm not one of the lucky 25% of women who can get off by intercourse. No. I need fingers or a mouth (or both) and lots of direct stimulation. And when all the stars align and this is done right, I'm able to orgasm easily. I know a lot of that has to do with the partners I choose. I wait to get intimate with a man until I feel safe, comfortable, and can say what I need in the bedroom."
"So imagine my surprise when - as a 50-year-old woman - I squirted for the first time in my life. And even more important to note: there was no direct stimulation at all. Yeah, it kind of blew my mind too. I experienced two firsts at an age where a lot of people believe the fun is over. Oh, no ma'am. The fun is just beginning."
"The other night while lying in bed after a great day, I was talking to my boyfriend on the phone. I started feeling aroused thinking about him and after a little dirty talk - it was sweet but not too intense - my undercarriage became very lubricated, which is normal for me. But what happened next made me freeze. I stretched and felt a warm gush between my legs and could feel the wetness on myself, under myself, and well, pretty much all over."
A 50-year-old woman requires direct clitoral stimulation to orgasm and typically needs fingers or oral sex rather than intercourse. She delays intimacy until she feels safe and can express needs to partners. While aroused during a phone conversation, she experienced unexpected, spontaneous squirting without any physical stimulation. The event surprised her and contradicted common assumptions about sexual decline with age. She values clear communication about sexual needs, recognizes the role of partner selection in satisfaction, and finds renewed confidence and excitement about sexual experiences during midlife.
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