
"I offered a basic male anatomy lesson (hello, bananas). Turns out most women know as little about men's anatomy as most men know about women's. We talked hygiene, gag reflex, deep-throating, swallowing (or not). And pillows! Pillows are your friends ― you can never have too many pillows. If you aren't comfortable yourself, ain't no way you can focus on someone else's comfort."
"We talked about power exchange and role-play. My Gestalt training, my lovers and my bodywork clients have taught me that sex is one of the richest playgrounds for self-discovery. I was painfully frank about my own experience. I proudly claimed my own promiscuity, whoreishness, sexual power ― and I gave my students a safe space to claim theirs. I suspected they wanted permission, but it wasn't mine to give. I urged them to give themselves any permission they needed."
A group of theater friends participated in an oral sex workshop that combined practical instruction, anatomy, and candid conversation. The session covered male anatomy, hygiene, gag reflex, deep-throating, swallowing choices, and positioning with pillows to enhance comfort. Emphasis was placed on the whole body as an erogenous zone and on prostate massage technique to intensify pleasure. The workshop addressed intimacy, vulnerability, consent, power exchange, role-play, and the psychological aspects of sexual exploration. Participants were encouraged to claim sexual agency, share fantasies, practice clear communication, and prioritize mutual comfort and pleasure rather than one-sided caretaking.
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