"The dating period is not a time for just shawarma and pizza.It's a period to get to know each other and determine whether you are right for one another or not.Many problems we see in marriages today are a result of misplaced priorities during the dating period.I was counselling a lady who shared some challenges she was facing in her marriage.So I asked her a few questions, and she admitted that she saw the signs but she thought he would change when they got married."
"The truth is, marriage does not change anyone. So, when you see red flags, analyse it properly; don't assume anything. Here's what to watch out for when dating someone:📍Inconsistent communication📍Disrespect for your boundaries📍Lack of emotional availability📍Constant criticism or put-downs📍Controlling behaviour📍Dishonesty or secrecy📍Inability to take responsibility📍Excessive jealousy or possessiveness📍Lack of effort or investment in the relationship📍Incompatible values or life goalsMarriage is a lifelong journey, and the best time to prepare is now! 🌟"
Dating should be a deliberate period to learn about a partner and decide compatibility rather than casual socializing. Misplaced priorities during dating contribute to many marital problems. People sometimes notice warning signs but assume a partner will change after marriage, yet marriage does not change core behavior. When red flags appear, analyze them instead of assuming they will disappear. Key red flags include inconsistent communication, boundary disrespect, emotional unavailability, criticism, controlling behaviour, dishonesty, refusal to take responsibility, excessive jealousy, lack of effort, and incompatible values. Preparing before marriage strengthens the relationship; a 12-week group coaching program offers tools and guidance to choose wisely and learn essentials before saying "I do".
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