"And then after you've worked through your trauma with the help of your therapist (which includes unpacking your feelings about being turned on by your trauma), you can - taking the tiniest of baby steps - explore these turn-ons to see if they're something you can safely and enjoyably incorporate into your IRL sex life or if they need to remain fantasy material only."
"I enjoy being teased and denied. I wish I could use a cock cage but sadly I lack the proper anatomy. Is there something equivalent for vagina-havers? Preferably something that doesn't require piercings to hold it in place. Has the insane popularity of male chastity devices in the last decade - cock cages - really obscured the fact that these "chastity devices" had to be qualified with "male" in the first place because "chastity devices" (aka "chastity belts") were originally a tool of the patriarchy?"
Therapeutic work on trauma, including unpacking arousal tied to traumatic memories, can enable cautious, incremental exploration of related sexual turn-ons to determine whether they can be safely and enjoyably integrated into real-life sexual activity or should remain fantasy. A cisgender bisexual woman asks about vaginal alternatives to male chastity devices and notes the historical role of chastity belts in patriarchal control, considering modern female chastity devices a sign of progress while seeking non-piercing options. Long experience in sex-advice does not substitute for medical training. Genital medical expertise derives from clinicians and doctors, and non-medical advisers should defer to physicians for diagnoses and treatment.
#trauma-informed-sexual-exploration #female-chastity-devices #consent-and-safety #genital-health-expertise
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