A partner experienced emotional betrayal through a friend's involvement and discovered multiple past physical affairs after marriage. Despite initial decisions to work through issues with therapy, it became clear there were deeper problems. The divorce was finalized shortly after realizing these patterns of infidelity had occurred in previous relationships as well. The individual expressed gratitude for not having children or obligations and recognized the pain of starting over, while ultimately accepting the situation and the lessons learned.
She was emotionally cheating on me with a friend for about 10 months and had had multiple physical affairs I never knew about. We'd been together five years, living together for three, and had a house together.
Through that, though, she ultimately confessed that she had several physical affairs in the past five years.
By January of this year, it was clear that her issues were a lot deeper than I was equipped to handle. The divorce went through a week or two ago.
It sucks starting over again and losing five years with the wrong person, but at the end of the day, it is what it is, and I know I did my best.
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