"The simple truth is you may never make it there. For whatever reason, there are guys who can come from one kind of stimulation and not the other. Anecdotally, "I can't come from head,", is something I've heard quite a bit on apps and in just general sex talk. For some, this may have something to do with mechanics-thrusting can induce orgasm in a way that sitting back and getting serviced does not."
"Still, there are things you can try, albeit none of them are guaranteed to get you off. Abstinence from orgasm (sex and masturbation) can make you more sensitive and it can make coming easier when it's finally time to do so. Try it. Go a few days or even a week and see if anything shifts. During the blow job, you can also experiment with prostate stimulation, as that pushes some guys over the edge."
Some men orgasm reliably from vaginal, anal, or active thrusting but cannot reach orgasm from oral stimulation alone. Mechanical differences between thrusting and passive receiving can account for varied orgasmic responses. Temporary abstinence from sex and masturbation can increase sensitivity and make orgasm more likely when stimulation resumes. Prostate stimulation during oral sex, using a finger or a toy such as Aneros stimulators, can push some men over the edge. Active participation, like thrusting into a partner's mouth, can serve as a workaround, but individual outcomes remain inconsistent and not guaranteed.
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