Welcoming a college student home can be challenging due to changes in dynamics. Establishing ground rules proved effective in creating a respectful atmosphere for the visit of the son’s girlfriend. Discussions on shared sleeping arrangements ensured comfort and discretion. The couple's courteous demeanor reflected appreciation for being treated as adults, resulting in a pleasant stay. Planning activities for the week was primarily left to the son, with the exception of a thoughtful dinner on the first evening to accommodate the girlfriend's arrival.
We first established house rules. We've always had pretty simple rules: If you're borrowing one of our cars, never drive impaired. Give us a general idea of when you'll be home. Call if you need help. Be conscientious, treat others as you'd prefer to be treated. In short: Don't be a jerk.
Discussing sleeping arrangements ahead of time was also crucial. Together, we decided they would share his bedroom, bathroom, and, of course, our common spaces. We simply asked for respect and discretion.
The young couple was courteous, lovely, and sweet. They appreciated being treated as the adults they are, and there was no weirdness whatsoever.
Aside from the first evening, when I knew his girlfriend would be exhausted after her long flight and made dinner at home, I left the entire week's planning to my son.
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