"You have every right to inform your sister of what's going on. It was never appropriate for your brother-in-law to send you one unsolicited dick pic, irrespective of your familial relation, let alone more than a dozen. That he is married to your sister only makes it worse. I have to wonder why he is so bold. Does he have a relationship death wish? Is he allowed to send dick pics willy nilly (even to his own wife's sibling!)?"
"You can talk to your sister whenever. She may ask why it took more than 12 times for you to reveal this, so be prepared for that. ( Why did it take more than 12 times?) Alternatively, before getting in touch with her, you can warn him that if he doesn't stop, you will tell your sister. See what he says. That might be enough to stop it, and if you don't feel like participating in a potential mess, maybe that's the best move."
Brother-in-law repeatedly sent unsolicited explicit photos despite clear refusal. Sister is a stay-at-home mother of three young children, creating concern about family stability and potential need for emergency housing if the marriage ends. The recipient has the right to inform the sister about the brother-in-law's behavior. The behavior is inappropriate and potentially self-sabotaging. Warn the brother-in-law first that the sister will be informed if the behavior continues. Be prepared to explain why disclosure took multiple incidents. Prioritize personal and family safety and set clear boundaries.
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