"Her preferred form of intimacy is to touch herself while letting me pump her mouth. It's been great and honestly hot, and she leans submissive in bed, so it's worked out well on that end, too. It's perfectly fulfilling for me and even unintentionally kinky in a way I like, and she says she enjoys that I'm still actively penetrating her even if not in a typical way."
"My girlfriend has expressed concerns that I might eventually get dissatisfied with our oral-only arrangement and stray from our relationship in pursuit of a woman I can have "conventional" sex with, which is something one of her exes did. It remains something she's sensitive and self-conscious about. The truth is, I adore her, find this perfectly satisfying, and just want her to feel safe knowing that."
A cis man describes dating a woman with severe, seemingly treatment-resistant vaginismus that has made vaginal sex impossible. The couple's sexual life centers on her touching herself while he performs oral sex, which both find intensely pleasurable and emotionally fulfilling. He also stimulates her clitoris or uses a vibrator and may touch between her legs when she allows. She fears he might eventually seek a partner with whom he can have vaginal intercourse because a past partner left for that reason. He says he adores her, finds the arrangement fully satisfying, and wants to make her feel secure about their future.
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