"It's one of the things we first bonded over when we met two years ago. In addition to that, he's also into cosplay. It's not my thing, but I understand and respect it. His favorite character to dress up as is Naruto. Lately, his love of cosplay, and specifically Naruto, has elevated to a different level. It started with him dressing up like him at cosplay events. Then, he started dressing up like him at home."
"Cosplay appeals to people all over the world for many different reasons. In addition to being a creative outlet, inhabiting a character that is meaningful to someone is a way to help them explore their own identity. There may be characteristics or experiences that the character has that they relate to or admire, and by becoming that character, they can see what it feels like to try on those attributes for themselves."
A partner reports that her boyfriend's cosplay of Naruto has progressed from event costumes to daily wear, dyed hair, and asking to be called "Naruto", causing discomfort. Cosplay can be a creative outlet and a method of exploring identity by inhabiting meaningful characters. The Naruto character's arc—from lonely orphan to determined ninja—may resonate emotionally and motivate the boyfriend to adopt those traits. Such role immersion can feel alarming when it intensifies and appears obsessive. Supportive responses should include open, nonjudgmental conversation, setting clear boundaries about shared life and names, and assessing whether the behavior impairs functioning or signals deeper issues.
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